A friend’s son cried every night in his sleep
A client asked about her friend’s son, who cried every night. I looked at his BaZi and pointed to things in the home and family to adjust.
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Client
It’s my friend’s kid.
就是我朋友的娃儿
He cries when he sleeps at night.
晚上睡觉就哭
Zongyuan
I’ll take a look in a bit.
我一会看看
Client
Born in 2017, [redacted] minute
2017年[redacted]分
Before dawn.
凌晨
Zongyuan
Daughter or son?
女儿还是儿子
昨天 21:49
Client
Son.
儿子
昨天 21:53
Zongyuan
Ding You [redacted] — his BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny) is born in the Xu month. The overall chart is mostly formed. The concern is water and wood entering the picture. The child’s mental state has been so-so since 2024, and he is not sensitive to yin-type energy.
丁酉 [redacted]
八字生在戌月，全局基本成势了，就怕水木入局，小孩实际从2024年开始精神状态就一般，对于阴性能量免疫
昨天 22:02
If these points are done well, he will get better.
本这几点做好，就可以好转。
Note this down.
收哈
昨天22:02
Have him give feedback on each one, one by one.
让他每一条逐条反馈
Client
Okay.
好的
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07:22
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All of these are present.
都有
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Zongyuan
3. Chou punishes Xu. This year, electrical things in the home have had problems — like lights not working, being dim, or loose connections. All of these need to be properly fixed.
3 丑刑戌了，家里今年的电器有问题，比如灯不亮，暗淡，电器接触不好，都要彻底修补。
4 家里有一个长辈心脑血管，还有一个是眼睛不好，家里没有重视（足够孝顺），也会影响到孩子，要带长辈去体检治疗。
5 家里早年有打过狗，或者父母有吃过狗肉的，今年戌土弱了，就会有这种情况，去给流浪动物做点慈善。
07:27
4. There is an elder in the family with cardiovascular or cerebrovascular issues, and another with poor eyesight. The family has not paid enough attention (or been filial enough), which can also affect the child. Take the elders for checkups and treatment.
再看这仨
Client
5. The family once had a dog killed in earlier years, or the parents have eaten dog meat. This year, when Xu earth is weak, this kind of situation can come up. Do some charity for stray animals.
有
Look at these three again.
电路不好已经整好了
Zongyuan
Yes.
长辈这块怎么说
Client
The electrical problems have already been fixed.
眼睛这个是他们奶奶白内障
What about the elder side?
已经做了手术了
The eye issue is their grandmother’s cataract.
但是还是看不见
She already had surgery.
全家都吃过狗肉
Zongyuan
But she still can’t see.
那就给奶奶多送点钱，关照好
Client
The whole family has eaten dog meat.
哪个野符她烧了对吗？
Zongyuan
Then send more money to the grandmother and take good care of her.
对，把符烧了
08:36
Did she burn that random talisman correctly?
他这个头像哈哈哈
Yes, burn the talisman.
不算孝顺
His profile picture, ha ha.
这个头像长辈空亡的
Client
It doesn’t show filial piety.
对
Zongyuan
In this profile picture, the elder position is empty.
先不说做不做手术的事儿
Right.
讲话就不好听
08:50
Leaving aside whether surgery was done or not,
长辈是感受不到爱和温暖的
Client
the way they speak is not kind.
她老公公过世，奶奶是跟到她们家叔叔，而且奶奶自己一个人住
Zongyuan
The elder does not feel love or warmth.
嗯，对于奶奶来说，实际是亲情缺失的，也没有依靠。要想小辈好，先善待长辈。
Client
Her husband’s father passed away. The grandmother lives with her husband’s uncle, and the grandmother lives alone.
今天我已经给她说了，她们觉得吃东西都想到奶奶，但是没有陪伴
Mm. For the grandmother, there is actually a lack of family affection and no one to rely on. If you want the younger generation to be well, treat the elders well first.
不一定是好
Zongyuan
I already told her today. They think of the grandmother when they eat, but they don’t spend time with her.
多去看看看望，然后该调整的都要调整完，小孩会慢慢好的。
That’s not necessarily good.
狗肉要戒了哈
Client
Go visit her more. Then adjust everything that needs adjusting, and the child will slowly get better.
给她说了
Zongyuan
Stop eating dog meat, by the way.
嗯好
Client
I told her that.
还喜欢吃黄鳝
Zongyuan
Mm, good.
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Client
She also likes eating eel.
都喊她不吃了
Zongyuan
[emoji]
嗯，喜享口福
I told her not to eat that either.
把家里的灯换亮
Client
Mm, she enjoys food too much.
灯整过的
Change the lights in the house to brighter ones.
之前烂了
The lights have been fixed.
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Zongyuan
They were broken before.
先拿下来
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明天等道长看了怎么处理
Client
Take it down first.
拿下来了
昨天 晚上11:24
Wait for the Daoist priest to see how to handle it tomorrow.
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Zongyuan
Took it down.
还有
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继续找
昨天 晚上11:25
Client
Also,
好
keep looking.
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Okay.
这包是对联
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前年没贴
Zongyuan
This bag has couplets.
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