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She said she had stopped being hard on herself

31 January 2026Jinan, Shandong Translated by AI

A client wrote to say she felt calmer after cutting off toxic people, and that option 3 from the peanut divination post had been mostly correct.

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Client
I’ve stopped being hard on myself. Once I blocked out all these toxic people and things, I finally felt inner peace. When I have things I can’t figure out, I go ask you. You’ve given me that quiet feeling inside. Since I met you, I’ve slowly become less depressed. I’m so grateful you’re willing to listen to me, to be someone I can talk to about how I feel. Thank you so much. From what my chart says, I came here to suffer and repay debts—money debts, relationship debts. I accept that. It’s just that the process is really painful, but it’s also taught me a lot. Human nature is changeable and complicated. Zongyuan, just a quick update: for that peanut-themed divination post you did, I picked option 3, and most of it was right.
放过自己了,屏蔽了这些烂人烂事我才感觉我内心平静了下来,有想不通的事情就去问问您,是您给了我内心的安静,从认识您开始我才慢慢没那么抑郁了[emoji]感恩您愿意听我倾诉,愿意当我的情绪输出口,万分感谢[emoji]从命盘看我就是来受苦还债的,钱债,感情债,我也接受的,只是这个过程确实很痛苦,但是也教会了我很多,人性是多变而复杂的! 老师,反馈一下,您出的花生那一期主题,我选择的3,基本都对[emoji][emoji][emoji]
Zongyuan
Mm-hmm.
嗯呢
It’s good that you’re coming out of it.
走出来就好了
That’s how life is. We’re always moving forward and figuring things out as we go. On one hand, let yourself make mistakes. Be kind to yourself, don’t get stuck in the past. At the same time, keep correcting yourself along the way—learn from the things that go wrong. As you grow wiser, you’ll feel more at ease. Let’s keep each other going.
人生就是如此,我们总在不断探索前进中。一方面允许自己犯错,要放过自己,不困于过去。同时呢也要不断自我矫正,吃一堑要长一智[emoji] 人不断增长智慧,就会越来越从容了,我们共勉哈[emoji][emoji]
Client
Mm-hmm. Thank you for the encouragement.
嗯嗯,谢谢老师鼓励[emoji][emoji][emoji]
Zongyuan
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