Her daughter’s mood improved after half a year
A mother asked about her daughter’s low mood. Six months later, she wrote back to say the girl was doing much better.
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Client
Zongyuan, I need your help again. Could you take a look? My daughter, born [redacted] 2003 in the solar calendar.
猫猫道长，又需要您的帮助了，您能给看看吗？我女儿，出生时辰阳历2003年[redacted]
Zongyuan
What’s going on with her?
她啥事儿
Client
Sorry, I’m getting in touch with her right now. Wait a moment.
不好意思，我正在和她联系，稍等
Zongyuan
No rush.
不着急
3月24日 下午17:53
Client
I think she’s depressed. It started in her second year of high school. There were interruptions so she never got a formal diagnosis. It got a bit better in her final year of high school. She didn’t do well on the college entrance exam, only got into a regular undergraduate program. Now her condition isn’t great again. Of course one should see a doctor for illness, but I still wanted to get some understanding or help from you. I can’t explain it all in a few sentences. What other information do you need?
她应该是抑郁了，高二时开始的，因事打扰没确诊，高三好点，高考不理想，只上了普通本科，现在情况又不大好，按说应该是有病治病，但是，还是想从您这了解一些或者得到一些帮助，一两句也说不清楚，您还需要哪些信息？
Zongyuan
I understand.
理解
Please send her BaZi.
请发八字
Client
Thank you for your trouble.
麻烦您了
Zongyuan
Gui Wei [redacted]
This BaZi was born in the You month, with fire mixing the bureau. On one hand it comes from the Wei, on the other it is true yang qi. When wood years come and pull it down, there is illness. In 2021 the child was still quite energetic. Starting in 2022 she developed depression, which continued on and off through 2023. 2024 is a turning point year. Starting from 2025 it will gradually improve, but it won’t be fully resolved yet. It will continue slowly until after 2027, when it comes to a close — you could say the battle is won. This is the effect of the luck pillar on a person.
The child’s spouse star is fire. These past wood years mean the depression was caused by relationship troubles. Stress is one factor, but the main issue is relationships. There are a couple of main relationship problems: one, the boy she likes already has a girlfriend. Two, when wood comes it pulls the self down, so she repeatedly belittles herself, can’t see herself clearly, feels she is very bad — this leads to depression.
From what I see in the BaZi, her depression currently shows signs of somatization: that is, the child appears lazy, has no motivation to eat or move, sleeps very poorly, and withdraws.
癸未 [redacted]
这个八字生在酉月，火混局了，一方面从未中出，一方面是真阳气。走木的年份拉低了就有疾病，在2021年的时候孩子还比较精神，到了2022年开始有抑郁，反复持续到2023年，2024年是一个分界点的年份，从2025年开始慢慢好转，但是还不能根治，一直慢慢持续到2027年之后，就告一段落了，算是战斗成功了。这是大运对于人的影响。
孩子的夫妻星是火，这里年走木年，就是感情上的纠纷导致的抑郁。压力是一方面，主要还是感情。感情上主要有几个问题，一个是她喜欢的男孩子，自己有恋爱对象。第二个是木来了自我拉低，她反复贬低自己，对自己不能正确认知，觉得自己很差，导致的抑郁。
孩子的抑郁目前我看八字是有躯体化倾向的，也就是小孩表现为懒，没有动力吃饭活动，睡眠很差，封闭。
3月24日 晚上18:27
result.
If the arrangement is done well, there will be signs of improvement after the Start of Autumn this year. Although there will still be occasional low mood, overall quality of life will improve.
Please receive.
果。
布置的好，今年立秋后开始有起色，虽
有有时候会有抑郁情绪，但是生活质量
整个上来了。
请收
Client
She really is very lazy, doesn’t like to move, barely eats, just likes to draw the curtains and stay in her room, often has insomnia. That’s why I think she’s depressed.
她确实很懒，不爱动不怎么吃饭，就喜欢拉上窗帘在屋子里呆着，经常失眠，所以，我觉得她是抑郁
3月24日 晚上19:04
She did mention to me that the root cause was relationship issues, but she didn’t say it was because the boy she likes has someone else. She said it was for other reasons — that she’s disgusted with men, doesn’t want a boyfriend, doesn’t want to get married, doesn’t want to have children. But I also had a feeling that she always says she’s terrible, so it’s probably what you said.
关于源头是感情问题，她也和我说起过，但没说是喜欢的男孩子有喜欢的人，而是，其它原因，所以，很恶心男人，不要找男朋友，不结婚，不生子。但是，我也有感觉，就是她总说自己很差，估计还是您说的情况吧
3月24日 晚上19:08
About treatment, I still need to figure something out. She’s studying in Jinan now, and our home is in Tianjin. When you said to find a doctor in the southwest direction for Chinese medicine treatment, do you mean near her school, or near home?
关于治疗的事，还得想办法，她现在济南上学，家在天津，您说的中医治疗，西南方向找大夫，指的是她上学的学校那边，还是家这边？
3月24日 晚上19:14
Got it 🤙
明白了🤙
3月25日 下午17:34
Zongyuan
🌹
🌹
Client
Hello Zongyuan, it’s been half a year. I wanted to update you on the child’s situation today. In short, her emotional state is so much better than before. There’s still one thing that’s not quite right — her attitude toward study and life isn’t very positive — but I’m already very satisfied. I did everything I could according to your instructions. The last thing was taking her to see Dr. Xu during the National Day holiday to get a diagnosis and prescription. In the summer vacation she refused to go because of the heat, no matter what. This time she went very obediently, and she’s been taking the medicine. She’s happy every day, feels like she’s back to when she was little. And she’s especially filial to me, cares about me. I feel very relieved. My heart feels much lighter. Thank you for your help 🤙🌹
道长好，半年了，今天和您说说孩子情况吧。一句话，现在的情绪状态比之前好太多。虽然还有一点不如意的，就是对学习和生活的态度不够积极，但是，我已经很知足了。按您的要求，我能做的都做了，最后一件事就是，十一假期带她去找许医生看了病开了药。暑假的时候她嫌热，怎么都不去，这回很听话就去了，药也都吃了。，天天乐呵呵的，感觉又回到了小时候的样子。而且她还特别孝顺我，关心我，我感觉很欣慰。我的心轻快多了。谢谢道长的帮助🤙🌹
19:01
Zongyuan
[emoji]🌹 I’m happy for you [emoji][emoji]
[emoji]🌹 替你感到高兴[emoji][emoji]
20:35
The clouds part and the moon shines through 👍
守得云开见月明👍