She asked about marriage and career path
A client asked why her life felt this way. We looked at her BaZi chart, and talked about relationship patterns and work fit.
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Zongyuan
According to this BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny), your proper romantic connection will come between 2022 and 2024.
这个八字儿 在2022-2024 会有正缘
But the chart shows a 'bi jie duo guan' pattern — it is common for the man you like to already be married, or already have a girlfriend.
不过八字比劫夺官了，容易出现你喜欢的男人有家室，或者已经有女友，
这种情况
Client
Yes.
对
Zongyuan
It is unavoidable.
无可避免
You asked what this person is like. I will list the traits: 1. When you meet him, he will most likely already be in a relationship, and you will end up taking that position. 2. He is older than you. 3. He has delicate features, is not very tall — around 175 cm — and has a gentle, scholarly bearing. 4. He is not in the civil service; most likely he works at a large private company, or a second-tier state-owned enterprise.
你问这人啥特点，我给你列一下
1 你认识的时候多数已经他有对象，
你相当于再上位
2 年纪比你大
3 长相比比较秀气，不算特别高，175
附近，偏儒雅。
4 不在公务员序列，多数大型民营或
者二级国企。
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These are the basic traits.
基本这几个特征
Most of the time, you will get together after he breaks up or gets divorced.
多数是要他分手或者离婚后 和你在一块
This person should have already appeared.
这人应该已经出现了
You are in contact.
有联系
Client
Yes, we are in contact.
对，有联系
Zongyuan, there is someone I like who is married.
猫猫，我有一个喜欢的在婚姻状态里的
Zongyuan
You will stay in the same kind of research role. It is hard for you to be in a pure state-owned enterprise — your chart points to a joint-stock company.
你还是干同样的研究类岗位，国企比较难，你的八字注定在股份制公司
It can have state-owned shares, but it cannot be a fully state-run enterprise.
可以有国企股份，但不能是纯国企
Client
Okay, I understand.
好的，明白
Zongyuan
Mm.
嗯
Client
So leaving the public system feels like fate.
从体制里跳出来看来是命运的安排
Zongyuan
It is.
是
Your original public-sector job was not a fully government-funded position either, was it.
你原来的体制应该也不算纯皇粮企业
Client
Yes.
对
Zongyuan
It was somewhat self-supporting, in that sense.
也是有点自负盈亏这意思
Client
Yes, exactly.
是的是的呢
Zongyuan
Mm.
嗯