House and family

Mother could not be buried, and the timeline held

14 July 2025Jinan, Shandong Translated by AI

She asked if her mother could finally be buried. I told her two time windows to watch for.

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Client

The coroner wanted an autopsy. I was out of town at the time and would not allow it to go ahead without me. I flew home immediately and negotiated to skip the autopsy, drop all claims, and let my mother rest first. But the other side would not agree. The autopsy finally happened on the 14th of the first lunar month. It has been almost two months since my mother passed. During this time we have cooperated with all relevant departments and staff. We have also accepted mediation from the police station — we will forgive and agree to anything, as long as she can be buried. But the other side keeps refusing mediation, so the case has no conclusion.

法医要求解剖，当时我在外地，就不许直接解剖。马上飞回家后，周旋不解剖，不追究任何责任了，入土为安先。但对方不要，最后是在正月十四解剖母亲去世已接近2月，在此期间，我们配合相关机构及工作人员调查。也接受派出所的调解，只要能入土，一切都谅解无异议，但因对方一直不接受调解，案情便一直无定论。

I would like to ask you for a divination. Is there any way to resolve this so my mother can be buried?

想请道长卜卦，能否有什么办法可以化灾，让母亲能入土

Zongyuan

Why can't she be buried right now?

现在为什么不能入土?

Client

Because the other side won't accept mediation. The negotiation process is complicated. At first the department said it would be handled as a family dispute, that they couldn't let a case like this go forward. We have agreed to everything, as long as she can be buried. But the other side won't accept it.

因为对方不接受调解周旋的过程比较复杂，部门一开始说以家庭纠纷处理，不能出现一例这种案件。所有一切我们都接受了，只要能入土但对方不接受，

He just... doesn't seem to understand.

他好像，听不懂

Zongyuan

What is your older brother asking for?

大儿子的诉求是什么

Client

I don't know.

不知道

Everyone involved knows he's digging a hole for himself. People from several departments, our family, the village, relatives — no one can talk sense into him.

整件事所有人都知道他在挖坑给自己跳几个部门的人，包括我们自己，还有村里，亲戚，和他说都无用。

Zongyuan

In the BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny), there is a Wei-Xu punishment formation, and the Seal star has no root to begin with. Punishment injures Metal, and Gui Water has no source — that is why her lifespan was short. After passing, she can rest when there is Metal to connect with the earth. This year there are two such time windows: one is Geng Chen month (April 5 – May 5 solar calendar), the other is the autumn Shen and You months (August 7 – October 7). [redacted], because there will still be obstacles at the end of summer in the first half of the year. There is also a second possibility: a temporary resting place is found in Geng Chen month, and the actual burial happens in autumn. A few points to note: 1. Your mother can be buried. It is only a matter of timing, of when the date arrives. 2. Your older brother is likely to come around and agree to the burial during the two time windows I mentioned, so she can rest in peace. Looking at the I Ching divination reading: [redacted][redacted][redacted][redacted] [redacted][redacted] [redacted][redacted][redacted] — again, inauspicious at first, then auspicious. Trouble first, then resolution. The hexagram shows an element of force, something like enforced execution — your brother will be compelled to go along with it. The timing again points to the months where Metal overcomes Wood, which are April and autumn as I said. You can also consider using legal channels, such as filing a lawsuit, getting a judgment or mediation agreement, then enforcing it. A few adjustments for you personally: 1. Put all photos of your mother away in drawers. Do not leave them out in the open. 2. Place a safe in the southwest of your living room, put one of your mother's belongings inside it, and then add more [text cut off]

八字见未戌刑，且印星本身无根，刑则伤金，癸水没有来源，因此寿数不长，在故去之后，需要见金接地的时候可以安息，对应到今年有两个时间点，一个是庚辰月（阳历4.5-5.5），一个是秋季的申酉月（8.7-10.7）。 [redacted]，因为上半年的夏季末还是有阻隔。这里还有第二种可能，也就是庚辰月有了一个地方暂时安放，下葬在秋季。几个提示方向： 1 母亲可以落葬，目前至少应期，也就是时间问题。 2 你的大哥在我上面讲到的两个时间点里容易开窍，同意下葬，入土为安。看一下梅花卦的提示: [redacted][redacted][redacted][redacted] [redacted][redacted] [redacted][redacted][redacted]后，也是先凶后吉，先折腾后摆平，这个卦里有强制信息，类似于强行执行，胁迫你大哥必须要这么干，应期看也是金克木的月份，也就是我上面说的4月和秋季。司法力量还是可以借助一下，比如起诉，拿到判决或者调解书之后执行。几个化解手段（调理你自身） 1 家里所有母亲的照片都收起来，放在抽屉里。不要外露。 2 在家里的客厅西南摆放保险箱，其中放一件你母亲的遗物，然后西南多

Client

Good morning, Zongyuan.

道长，早上好

4月17日上午07:33

Zongyuan

🌹

Client

After a recent inspection and petition, we were notified we can pick up the cremation certificate this morning. If this is real and not another false lead like the last few times, we can arrange the burial in the next few days. In the end the case was decided not to be filed, only administrative penalties.

近期督察信访后，通知今天早上可以去拿火化证明。如真实不虚，不像前几次又忽悠过，那这几天就可以来安排入土。最后案件是决定不予立案，行政处罚

Zongyuan

That's very good 👍

那很好👍

Keep up the arrangement at home.

家里的摆设维护好

Client

After the burial, do we keep the arrangement as it is?

等入土后，摆设也照样摆着么

Zongyuan

Keep it for six months after the burial first.

入土后先维持半年

Client

Okay.

好的

Can I have another divination?

我可以再卜一卦么？

Zongyuan

Have you finished all the funeral arrangements?

你们家丧事办完了吗

Client

The funeral is done. She was buried in April.

丧事办好了，4月份入土的。

Zongyuan

Good 👍

好的👍

Client

We didn't end up filing a lawsuit. We consulted a lawyer, and it was exactly as you said — going through legal process had less than a 70% chance. The lawyer advised against it. The final compensation would be small, not worth the costs, and it would take a long time. We were worried my father's health couldn't take it.

然后后面没有起诉。咨询了律师，确实跟您说的一样，走法律程序，70%以下。律师建议还是不要走程序好，最后的赔偿也是不多，抵不过相关的费用，费时长，怕我父亲身体接受不了

The other side also didn't dare to show up.

对方也不敢来

Zongyuan

Good, it went quite smoothly 👍

好的，还是挺顺利的👍

Client

The funeral and everything after went very smoothly. It all lined up with what you said.

丧事和后面的一切都理得很顺利，跟您说的都对得上

We still have the items you suggested in place, we haven't moved them.

之前的摆件就都还留着，没有动

Zongyuan