She asked if this person would cause her harm
A client asked about a difficult coworker, worried the person would harm her. I told her the conflict would die down after mid-June.
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Client
It's pretty scary. She seems completely out of her mind, nothing she says makes sense.
挺可怕的,感觉疯的挺彻底的,说的话都没逻辑
Zongyuan
Haha [emoji]
哈哈[emoji]
What do you want to ask?
你想问啥
About your relationship with this person?
和这人的关系?
Client
She was born in 1992, [redacted]
她是92年, [redacted]
6月2日 11:28
How do I resolve this? It feels really terrifying.
这事咋化解啊,感觉挺恐怖的
The thing is, I didn't do anything at all. She's just making all this up in her own head.
问题我啥也没干啊,她自己纯自己在那想的了
I'm so fed up I can't even say anything.
我真是无语死了
I don't want to fix the relationship with her. I just hope she doesn't hurt me. I haven't had enough of my good days yet.
我也不想和她修复关系,只求别害我。
我好日子还没过够呢
6月2日 11:33
Zongyuan
[redacted]. A few notes: 1. The relationship can't be fixed to what it was before, and you'll barely have any contact after this. 2. There will be arguments at first, but they'll be put to rest later. Most likely her supervisor or manager will step in to handle it, and the conflict will die down. 3. There's no major harm to you personally, at most just some mental discomfort. It will start easing up especially after mid-June. Besides, there will be some good things for your career this autumn. 4. One of you two will change positions or have a work change, so communication and handover matters will decrease. This will be around July or October.
[redacted]。
几个提示:
1 感情无法修复到之前了,基本之后也没有啥联络了。
2 初期会有口舌,但是后期会被压下去,多数是她的领导或者上级会介入处理,口舌会平息。
3 对你本人没有什么太大的不利,最多也就是心理上膈应,尤其进入6月中之后会缓解的,此外今年秋季你事业上还有些好事儿。
4 你俩其中一人会换岗或者工作变更,交流交接的事情都会减少,时间在7月或者10月前后。
Take it easy, nothing too bad going on.
收哈 没啥太大不妥
6月2日 14:51
Client
Okay.
好的
That reading you did about my coworker last time was pretty accurate.
你上次算我同事那个挺准的
The one who was acting crazy.
就是犯神经病那个
Zongyuan
Who was that? I don't even remember.
谁来着,我都不记得了
Client
They sent her home at the end of June.
6月底就让她回家了
Zongyuan
Oh right, the person who was giving you a hard time?
哦哦,折腾你那个人是吧
17:21
Mm, I remember now.
嗯,我想起来了
Client
They didn't let her stay in her original position either.
也不让她干原来岗位了
The one who suddenly had a mental breakdown [emoji]
突然得失心疯那个[emoji]
Zongyuan
That's good. She really won't be able to bother you in July [emoji]
那挺好,7月确实折腾不上你了[emoji]
When was her official position change?
正式换岗在啥时候
Client
It really messes with your head.
搞人心态
They gave her the notice at the end of June that she wouldn't be in her original position anymore.
6月底就给她下文不再干原岗位了
Then she went home, and hasn't come to work since. The company asked her family to take her to see a doctor.
然后她就回家了,现在一直也没上班。
单位让她家人带她去看病
Sounds like depression.
好像是抑郁
Zongyuan
Mm
嗯
That's good [emoji]. You're free of it now.
挺好[emoji] 你解脱了
Client
Even though I still feel mentally drained this year, it feels way better than the past two years.
虽然我今年也觉得心累,但感觉比前两年好多了
At least this year I can talk myself through it.
起码今年能自己劝自己了
The past two years I couldn't make sense of anything no matter what, and I'd get so angry at myself.
前两年是咋都想不通,自己给自己气的不轻
I relied on you as my emotional support those past two years [emoji]
前两年都靠你当精神支柱了[emoji]
Zongyuan
[emoji][emoji][emoji][emoji] I'm always here.
[emoji][emoji][emoji][emoji] 我一直在
Client
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