He asked if the person he liked would work out
He asked if the person he was interested in was the right one. I told him the current person was likely not his final choice.
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Client
Hello Zongyuan 🌞
猫猫道长你好🌞
Zongyuan
Hello
你好
Client
I've followed your official account for a long time. I've had some doubts lately, and I was hoping you could help me look into them.
关注你的公众号挺久了。最近有些疑惑，想要你能帮我看看。
It's a relationship question
感情上的问题
Zongyuan
Sure
好的
Client
Will there be a result with the person I like right now? Or rather, is this person I like now someone I should be liking? I'll pay the divination fee first. Even if it's just a chat, that's fine.
我现在喜欢的人会有结果吗？或者说
现在喜欢的这个人是我应该去喜欢的
人吗？
卦金先付给你。就当是聊天也好。
🌞
🌞
Zongyuan
Send me your BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny)
八字儿发我吧
I'll look at it tomorrow and get back to you
明儿我看了回你
Bingzi [redacted]
Your BaZi is born in the [redacted] month, the spouse star is [redacted], and Bing appears both internally and externally. So you became aware of romantic feelings early on — you had relationships (could be puppy love) back when you were in school. The girls you like are either better than you or hold a higher position, like good grades, being a class cadre, or it could even be a crush on a teacher.
You've had scattered romantic prospects from 2023 until now. The people you meet in 2024-2025 are more to your liking, but your BaZi shows you're especially prone to getting caught in love triangles. The person you like often already has a partner or a family, or they could be seeing two people at the same time.
Next year, when Bing emerges, it appears both in the year chart and in the domestic sphere. Your attention will be split — you'll like two people. One of them will most likely be an online relationship, or someone you rarely get to meet in person. The other will be close to you geographically.
丙子 [redacted]
八字生[redacted]月，夫妻星[redacted]，丙在
内外都有，因此你感情开智比较早，
在读书的时候就有感情（也可以是早
恋），喜欢的女孩要么是比你优秀要
么是职级高，比如成绩好，班干部，
也可以是暗恋老师。
从2023年至今陆陆续续都有桃花，其
中24-25年出现的人比较合你心意，
但是你的八字特别容易陷入三角恋，
你喜欢的人容易本身有对象或者有家
庭，也可以是她同时交往两个。
到了明年丙出来了，年上和家内都有，
你的心思也分散了，会喜欢两个人，
其中一个人多数是网恋，或者见面机
会少，另一个人和你距离近。
Client
A love triangle...
I did have a relationship in college. She wasn't exactly outstanding, but she was really small and cute. Before we got together, she was definitely being ambiguous with someone else. Later, she was the one who broke up with me, and she got with someone else right away. I don't mean to blame her — looking back now, when she got together with me, it was also right after her thing with that other person. Maybe she's always been like that.
The person I like now I actually met in 2024. Thinking back, I probably didn't even get a clear look at what she looked like when I started liking her. But she probably doesn't have feelings for me. She has a boyfriend now anyway — when I asked her if she did, she said yes. From the timing, it seems like she got one after turning me down.
You said I'll like another person... so does that mean the person I like now most likely won't work out?
三角关系……
大学确实谈过一段恋爱。她倒谈不上优秀，但人确实挺小巧可爱。没和她在一块的时候她确实和别人暧昧不清。后来和我分手也是她提的，她无缝衔接。没有指责她的意思，毕竟现在回想起来，她和我在一块对于之前那个和她暧昧的人也算是无缝衔接，可能她一直是这样的。
现在喜欢的人确实是24年遇到的。现在想起来，喜欢她的时候我应该都没看清她长什么样子。不过她对我大概是没什么感觉，现在她也有男朋友，反正我问她是不是，她说是。时间上好像是拒绝我之后有的。
您说我还会喜欢一个人……所以是说现在我喜欢的人大概率是没有结果的吗
Zongyuan
The second person — she's also being ambiguous with both sides
第二人，她也是两边暧昧着
The current person is most likely not your final choice
目前这人多数不是最终选择
Think back to the first person. She would have had one thing that was above you — age, position (student union, club), or some title from an activity she participated in.
你回忆下第一人，她会有一处高于你，
年纪，职级(学生会，社团)，或者参加
过什么活动有头衔。
10:54
Client
She was indeed one year older than me
年龄确实大我一岁
Maybe two years
也可能是两岁
Zongyuan
Mm-hmm
嗯
Client
Come to think of it, she never even told me her real age...
说起来，她居然没告诉我真实年龄……
Zongyuan
Hahaha 😂
哈哈哈😂
Client
And we were together for three years
然后我们还在一起三年
Zongyuan
You're very forgiving
你也是很宽容
10:56
Client
I get it now. Honestly, I'm really scared of this kind of love triangle. I also [redacted], it's not a good thing.
So will I get divorced in the future? Whether it's her cheating or me cheating. Please don't hold back here — tell me what you see.
有数了。其实我是真的害怕这种三角关系。我也[redacted]，就不是什么好事。
那将来我会离婚吗？无论是她出轨还是我出轨。希望这里您不要顾虑，告诉我您看到的
That first relationship where she moved on right away really made me hesitant about relationships
第一段被无缝衔接真的让我对感情挺犹豫的
I don't really believe in this kind of thing anymore
不太能相信感情这些事
Zongyuan
Marrying later can solve this problem. Also, marriage misfortune is an image, not a fixed conclusion. For example, separation is actually one manifestation of marriage misfortune.
晚婚可以解决这个问题，再一个是婚灾是一个象，不是定论。比如分居实际上婚灾的一种显现。
So there's no need to worry too much
所以不用太担心
Another thing — life is full of experiences. It's enough to have once had something. Your relationships can still bring you joy. Aside from this love triangle issue, the person you find will bring you positive influence and make you more proactive.
再一个嘛，人生处处是经历，曾经拥有就行。你的感情还是可以给你带来快乐，找到人撇开三角恋这个事儿除外，给你带来了正向影响，让你积极起来了。
So you should face it head-on, there's no need to be afraid.
所以也是要正视它，不必恐惧。
11:05
Client
[emoji] Yeah, no matter what the result is, I'll take relationships seriously...
Okay. I don't have any more questions, or rather, I have a clear idea now.
Thank you for answering my questions, thank you [emoji][emoji][emoji]
[emoji]恩，无论结果如何，我都会认真对待感情……
好的。我没什么疑问了，或者说心里也有数了
感谢答疑，感谢[emoji][emoji][emoji]
Thanks for your hard work [emoji]
辛苦了[emoji]
You have a pending transfer to receive
你有一笔待接收的转账
[emoji][emoji][emoji] Looking forward to more good content
[emoji][emoji][emoji]期待更多好的作品