A mother asked about her son’s learning and personality
She asked about her son’s character and school performance. I told her his first luck pillar starts in 2025, and how to guide him without suppressing his nature.
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Zongyuan
Another point: the boy enters his first luck pillar late. He has not stepped into his first luck period yet. His Yi luck pillar starts in 2025. In 2025, the Geng metal hidden in Si will emerge to control wood. His learning state will improve after autumn that year.
His BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny) shows the image of a dried flower, so he likes to perform, show himself, and talks a lot. But dried flowers also decay easily, which corresponds to a sensitive personality, concern for face, and not having much real substance inside. Parents need to pay attention to the method when guiding him. Do not suppress him excessively; give him space to express himself.
This chart uses [redacted], so for hobbies, focus on language development and external expression skills. You can consider putting effort into foreign languages. You can also consider thinking and expression classes, or courses related to journalism, which fit his chart better.
For adjustment: the original chart uses the [redacted] on the year stem, but the [redacted] is not strong enough. After the Start of Spring in the Year of Jia Chen, place a metal [redacted] [redacted] in the southwest Kun position of the home. [redacted] will combine and restrain the [redacted] Sheep Blade in the original chart, which will help him perform better. You can also hang a small ox charm on his pencil case. [redacted] as a support will strengthen [redacted].
再一个是小孩上运晚,到目前都还没有
踏上第一步运,2025年开始才是上了乙
运,2025年恰好逢巳中庚金出干伐木,
这一年的秋季之后也会有学习状态的改
善。
八字成像是干花,因此孩子的性格上好
表现,喜欢展现自己,话多。但是干花
也容易腐败,对应在性格上就容易敏感,
好面子,实际里肚子里料不多。家长在
引导的时候需要注意方式方法,不能过
度打压,要给表现空间。
这个八用[redacted],因此在爱好上,要重点
关注语言发展和外在表现力,可以考虑
在外语上下功夫,另外可以考虑思维表
达课,或者记者类的课程,更加贴合他
的命局。
在调理上,原局用年上的[redacted],但是[redacted]
力量不足,可以在家里的西南坤宫方向,
在甲辰年立春后,摆一个金属造型的[redacted]
[redacted],[redacted]来合绊原局的[redacted]羊刃,会
让他表现更好。笔袋上也可以挂一个小
牛,[redacted]的靠山,可以给[redacted]增力。
Please take this.
请收哈
Client
So thorough… [emoji][emoji][emoji] Thank you so much
好全面…[emoji][emoji][emoji]感谢您
So thorough… 🙏🙏🙏 Thank you so much
好全面…🙏🙏🙏感谢您
Zongyuan
You’re welcome.
客气哈
Client
He really does like to perform, and doesn’t have much real substance 😅 But he always thinks he’s great
确实好表现 肚子里料不多😅但总觉得自己很牛
He really loves showing off
确实爱表现
Talks a lot
话多
Zongyuan
This personality matches his BaZi, and it cannot be changed. As long as a person finds the right direction to develop, that is good.
这是符合八字的性格,也改不掉,人只要找对方向发展,就是好的
If you force him not to perform or not to speak, that goes against the way of nature.
如果强行不准他表现不准他说,就不符合道法自然
Let him speak and practice in the right places, and he will grow into his potential.
要让他到合适的地方去讲 去锻炼,反而成材
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Client
He loves acting… A while ago there was a performance opportunity for him to try, but I turned it down 🤔
特别爱演…前一段还说有个表演方便的让他试试 被我阻拦了🤔
2025 feels so far away 😂 Right now, if I say one thing to him, he has a whole list of excuses
2025年感觉好漫长啊😂
现在说他一句,他就会有一堆理由
So just offering a [redacted] is all we need for now, right? 🤭
那就是供个[redacted]其他暂时不需要是吧🤭
I’ll send you a photo once I set it up
我到时摆好,发您图看看