A mother asked about her son's mood and friendships this year
She asked about her son's low mood and friction with friends. I noted the year chart pattern and suggested small home adjustments.
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Zongyuan
It shows directly in the Bi Jie palace, so in the native's social life, they always feel they fall short of their friends, or are always overshadowed, which easily leads to feelings of inferiority.
The yang energy in the home is [redacted] present, so in [redacted] year the child was still quite strong, active, and accomplished. Looking ahead, in 2020-2021, the Geng Zi and Xin Chou years, although it was during the pandemic, their mood was good, their mindset was positive, and their relationships with friends and family were not bad. Things started going downhill from 2022; the person became listless and low in energy.
This year is Jia Chen year. The overall order of the chart is disrupted. There are problems in interpersonal relationships, friction with friends, and also pressure or cold treatment from superiors (elders, teachers), which leads to low mood, depression and anxiety.
From the second half of this year, they will become relatively more active, and will gradually improve in the next two years. Several adjustment methods:
1. Mao You clash: ball sports are suitable, moving around is good, especially walking west or north.
2. If there are off-season paintings at home — first, paintings of spring and summer scenes, second, paintings with several seasons mixed together — they need to be removed. The child prefers autumn and winter scenery.
3. If there are rabbit or dragon ornaments, paper items (paper-cuts, red envelopes, etc.) at home, find them and get rid of them.
4. In the northeast corner of the living room, place about [redacted] pieces in a tall glass cylinder, with enough water.
直接体现，在比劫宫，因此在命主的社
会交往里，自己总是比不上朋友，或者
总是被压一头，容易有自卑情绪。
家内的阳气是[redacted]现的，因此在
[redacted]年小孩还是比较有力的，活跃，
有作为，往前看，在2020-2021庚子年，
辛丑年，虽然属于疫情期间，但是心情
上不错，心态也好，和朋友六亲关系和
不差。从2022年开始走下坡路，人懈怠
无力。
今年是甲辰年，全局的秩序打破，人际
交往有问题，和朋友有摩擦，也容易有
来自上级（长辈，老师）的施压，冷暴
力，因此低落，人有抑郁焦虑情绪。
今年的下半年开始会相对活跃起来，明
后年逐渐好转，几个化解调整手段：
1 卯酉冲，适合球类运动，适合跑动，尤
其往西，往北行走。
2 家里有反季节的图画，一是春夏景象的
画作，二是有好几个季节混合在一起的
画，需要处理掉，孩子喜欢秋冬季节的
景色。
3 家里有兔子，龙的摆件，纸张（剪纸，
红包等），找出来处理掉。
4 在家内的客厅东北角，摆放[redacted]
支左右，放在长筒的玻璃缸里，水量要
充足。
Send it to her
发她吧
Client
Okay
好的
Zongyuan
No problem
无妨
Client
The child's mother asked me to thank you for her. She said there's still some hope 🤗
孩子妈让我带她感谢你，她说还有点希望🤗
You're amazing. One of the child's good friends broke a bone, I think it was earlier this year 👍
你太牛了，那孩子的一个很好的朋友骨折了，好像是今年初的事情👍
12:10
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This is the painting hanging on her wall
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她家墙上挂的是这个画
12:11
Zongyuan
It harms others, not oneself
伤人不伤己
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Do you see what's off about it?
看到违和了吗
There are off-season paintings in it: first, spring and summer, second, several seasons mixed together. They need to be removed. The child prefers autumn and winter.
里有反季节的图画，一是春夏
，二是有好几个季节混合在
需要处理掉，孩子喜欢秋冬
。
Client
I see it. You're 🐂 (awesome)
看到了，你🐂
Zongyuan
Do you see what's off about it?
看到违和了吗
Client
I see it, you [emoji]
看到了，你[emoji]
Okay, I'll tell her
好，我跟她说
Zongyuan
Let your friend experience something unusual [emoji]
让你朋友体验体验神迹[emoji]
Client
Forget her, I'm already completely impressed
别说她了，我都五体投地了
Zongyuan
[emoji]
[emoji]
Client
She said her son is really close to that friend who broke a bone, like he's obsessed. She asked if that child is good for her son, and whether they should keep being friends like this
她说她儿子跟那个骨折的朋友可好了，
像着魔的状态，她问那孩子对她儿子好
不好，要不要这样继续交往
Zongyuan
Just don't interfere
不干涉就好
Client
Her son has won first place in two badminton matches in a row, though they were small competitions. You [emoji]
她儿子，羽毛球，连续两个比赛第一名
了，不过是小范围的比赛，你[emoji]
So amazing
太牛了