House and family

She kept arguing with her son and asked why

30 May 2024Jinan, Shandong Translated by AI

A client asked about constant arguments with her son. I cast an I Ching divination, said it was a short-term issue, and suggested small home adjustments.

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Client

Zongyuan, I’ve been arguing with my child a lot lately and I’m really upset. Everything I say to him makes him impatient. I want to check if we’re clashing with each other.

道长，最近和孩子争执，非常不开心，和孩子说什么他都非常不耐烦，想看看我和孩子是不是冲啊

Zongyuan

The hexagram is Di Feng Sheng changing to Lei Feng Heng, with the mutual hexagram Lei Ze Gui Mei. In the original hexagram, the Zhen hexagram is in its tomb phase, meaning blockage. The child has been having a hard time with work and relationships recently, with signs of anxiety. The mutual hexagram shows metal and wood clashing, which means arguments and easy outbursts of conflict. But the changed hexagram is Lei Feng Heng, meaning both sides will get in step later. This is a short-term problem.

地风升转雷风恒，互卦雷泽归妹。本卦见震卦入墓，为闭塞，小孩在工作和感情上近期都不是太顺心。有焦虑倾向，互卦为金木交战，为口舌，也容易爆发争吵。但是互卦见雷风恒，为男女步调一致，之后会好转，这是短期的问题。互卦有所提示，金木交战为外出，可以一起参与点活动，游玩或者体育，关系会有所好转。

20:26

The mutual hexagram also gives a hint: metal and wood clashing corresponds to going out. You can join some activities together, like sightseeing or sports, and the relationship will improve.

请收哈

Please take this to heart.

另外看这个卦，说明家里有布料或者衣服上面有洞了，自己找一找给处理掉。另外家里花草长得有点趴下来，你修剪一下，也会有所帮助。

Client

Also, from this hexagram, there’s fabric or clothing with a hole in your home. Look for it and get rid of it. Besides, some of your houseplants are drooping a bit. Trim them, and that will help too.

衣服破了倒没有发现，花到是有倒下的

20:35

Zongyuan

I haven’t found any torn clothes, but there are indeed drooping plants.

嗯这个先处理

Mm, deal with the plants first.

衣服慢慢找

Take your time looking for the clothes.

剪完你就能舒服点

20:44

Client

You’ll feel better after trimming them.