She asked about a breakup, then wrote back in autumn
She wanted to know about the separation. I read both charts and told her the split was not a loss. In autumn she wrote back: it had all played out as described.
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Client
We've already separated. It's not convenient for me to ask him.
我俩已经分开了，我不方便问他
He should also be a morning birth.
他应该也是上午
[redacted] recalled a message.
[redacted]撤回了一条消息
7月6日 21:31
He was born at 8:30 in the evening.
他是晚上8点半
I was born between two and three in the morning.
我是凌晨两点到三点
Thank you, Zongyuan.
谢谢猫猫道长
Zongyuan
Your BaZi produces [redacted], the spouse star is [redacted], and this is currently a Wu-fire year. Chou and Wu clash, so a breakup was certain, and this person is not your true match. The Chou-Wu clash also brings arguments. This breakup was never going to end peacefully for you — it was likely to be a big fight or something ugly. And from your chart, the man is not particularly faithful either. While he was breaking up with you he was already looking for someone new, and he tends to move straight from one girlfriend to the next.
Looking ahead, the next relationship comes in 2028, possibly as early as late 2027. A picture of your future spouse:
1. Fairly light-skinned.
八字生[redacted]，夫妻星[redacted]，目前为午火的年份，丑午穿必定会分手，且这个人不是正缘，丑午穿也会带来争执，你跟他分手这个事儿也不容易和平结束，容易大吵或者闹得比较难看。而且从你的八字看，男方也并不是太专一，在和你闹分手的期间基本就已经开始物色新对象，也容易无缝衔接下一个女友。
往后看，再有感情在2028年，最早会在2027年年末出现，配偶画像：
1 人皮肤比较白。
7月6日 21:50
Now your ex-boyfriend's chart:
[redacted], [redacted] — also pulling in opposite directions, but the lu has landed. His mind has been restless this year, and the breakup hasn't affected him much. By autumn you'll basically know who he's with — it's more or less a seamless transition. This chart has strong peach blossom, and he won't be idle after marriage either. So the breakup is a good thing.
再看你前男友的八字：
[redacted]，[redacted]，也是南辕北辙了，但是禄落地了，他今年的心思就比较活泛了，且对于分手这个事情也没有多大得到感觉，到了秋季基本你就能知道他和谁在一块，基本算是无缝衔接了。这个八字桃花旺，婚后也不会闲着，所以分手也是好事了。
Please take this.
请收
The breakup is a good thing. Wait for the next one.
分手是好事儿，等下一个吧
Client
[emoji][emoji][emoji] Alright.
[emoji][emoji][emoji]好吧
Even though it's very hard to let go.
虽然很舍不得
Zongyuan
Find someone to keep an eye on him.
找个人盯着他
Once he's seamlessly moved on, you'll be able to let go.
等他无缝衔接上了 你就舍得了
Client
I went to see him a few days ago and he wouldn't let me look at his phone...
我前几天去找他，不让我看手机了。。。
But I feel terrible.
但是我好难受
Zongyuan
The person you like and the person you can actually end up with, who suits you — there's still a certain difference between them.
你喜欢的 和最后能走到一块适合你的
还是有一定的差别
Client
My family is pushing me to marry again.
家里又催婚
Zongyuan
That's nothing. You'll feel bad for a while and then you won't.
这没啥 难受一阵就不难受了
But I feel terrible.
但是我好难受
Client
Such a big difference.
好大的差别
Zongyuan
That's how relationships are. Everything is for the future — for planning ahead.
感情这种事情就是这样 一切为了以后
打算
No matter how happy you are with this man, it's no use. In the end he'll be with some other woman.
这男的在一块再怎么高兴，也没用，
最后还是跟其他女的在一块
Client
And he was the one who broke up with me. He said that even if we got married, he might still cheat.
而且他跟我分手，是他提的，他说了
就算结婚了，他也可能会出轨
Zongyuan
What do you want a man like that for?
这样的男人要他干啥呢
Mm. That's what I told you — he plays around.
嗯 就是我告诉你的 玩的花
And he was the one who broke up with me. He said that even if we got married, he might still cheat.
而且他跟我分手，是他提
的，他说了就算结婚了，他也可能会出轨
Client
[emoji] I gave too much.
[emoji]我付出太多了
Zongyuan
Just wait normally. If the time hasn't come, you won't meet the person.
正常等待就好，时间不到遇不到人
7月7日 07:19
Client
Zongyuan, I know you've gone to sleep. I feel like I have a lot of bad peach blossom, and I want to marry early...
[redacted]道长，知道您睡了，我感觉我烂桃花特别多，我又想早点结婚，…
Zongyuan, you're really amazing, your reading was so accurate. My true match hasn't arrived yet, but my ex-boyfriend's behavior matched everything you said.
道长，你真的太厉害了，算的太准了，虽然我的正源还没到，但是前男友的行为全对上了
08:19
He really did announce it officially in autumn.
真的在秋天官宣了
Zongyuan
Ha, it's true match (正缘), not true source (正源).
哈哈是正缘 不是正源
Then there's even less reason to look back.
那你就更不用回头看了
Client
Yes, there's no need.
是的，没必要
Thank you.
谢谢您
Zongyuan
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