She asked about a man and his real intentions

What do you mean by can’t see where things stand?

Do you think it’s ambiguous?

Hmm, that part won’t be in the reading. I only look at the relationship between the two of you.

For the questions you’re asking (especially the relationship between two people), Qi Men Dun Jia is more suitable.

Female: [redacted] Male: [redacted] Qi Men outer plate Bing Wu, Bing Shen, Xin You, Yi Wei The outer plate falls in the Shen month, and the hour pillar shows Yi Mu entering the tomb — this marks the end of the matter, with little sign of new growth. Inner plate: The female’s fate falls in [redacted], which is in void. In this state, it usually means the person has no solid footing in their heart. Also, with the Value Symbol present, there is a tendency to put on a bold front or force oneself to hold on (in reality, the heart is uncertain, or the person already wants to leave). In this pattern, [redacted] is in a conflicting relationship, so the relationship cannot last. In addition, the [redacted][redacted] earth plate represents concealment — usually a polyamorous situation, or a third person appearing in your relationship. The male’s fate falls in [redacted], where the Six Harmonies and the Wu-Gui combination are present. This person either has been married before, or is still in a marriage. If he is already divorced, he is likely still in contact with an ex or a third person. Also, the [redacted] combination indicates an age-gap relationship — there is a big age difference between you and him. If he has other romantic interests (a third person), there will also be a significant age gap with that person. Your relationship: 1. At present, it seems you have more need for him — you generate him, but since your position is in void, it can be understood as wanting to get close while also wanting to run away, a very conflicted state. This year the void is filled, so you have given him tangible benefits, whether physically or in terms of resources. Right now you are the one giving.

2. The male’s fate is in the Gen palace. His current situation is rather passive, he won’t take a clear stance, and there will basically be no major progress going forward. Also, [redacted] is called the Three Deceptions and Five Falsehoods — there are many empty promises, mixed with truth and lies, which you will have trouble seeing through and may easily take as real. (Besides, his romantic life has always been complicated and unclear, and he won’t give you any commitment in the relationship.) 3. In the long term, you won’t be able to break things off completely this year, because the Li trigram’s void is filled. But next year, moving into the second half of 2027 (Ding Wei) and the first half of 2028, when the Li trigram falls completely into void, your relationship will basically be over.

Please take note

Look at the second paragraph I wrote

This pattern is problematic. He’s different on the inside and outside. Be careful and protect yourself.

He’s likely to get into legal trouble next year, and this trouble could easily involve you. What you’re worried about isn’t wrong — the involvement would come from these financial transactions.

But as for breaking up — you won’t be able to break things off cleanly this year. I already wrote the reason above. Even if you tell him right now that you want to break up immediately and stop seeing each other, most likely by autumn you’ll go back on it, or there will be some work-related matter between you two that gets tangled up again. For the actual breakup, time it properly — it’s best if you can end it by next year.

He is in it for the money, and the physical connection and resources are just a bonus. This person doesn’t stay committed to anyone. There really are a lot of women around him, inside and out of his life.

Your BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny) shows that when fire element appears in your chart, you tend to attract bad romantic relationships.

They come to collect emotional debts.

Remember this sentence for the future: a man who truly treats you well will never pursue you when his own relationship status is unclear. If he can do this to you, he can do it to others too.

He can put on a show for anyone, and every year there’s a time when he acts like he’s deeply in love. He can give his lifespan and blessings to n number of people.

The fruits of this life are rooted in the causes of past lives. You probably owed him a lot in a past life, so he’s here to collect the debt — you give money and your body, and he takes no responsibility.

The causes he creates may not show their results in this lifetime. You don’t need to worry about that.

You should be glad this bad fate is gradually coming to an end. If you ended up married to someone like him, that would be the real suffering.

Go back and read it again

Cut your losses early. Don’t get tangled up with terrible people.