He asked if his relationship would end cleanly
He asked if the relationship would end decently. I told him to be honest, not to hide it.
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Zongyuan
What would you like to ask?
你想问什么
Client
I want to ask if this relationship will end completely decently. Because I feel she is a bit emotionally unstable now, and wants to bring this whole thing out into the open.
我想问问这段感情会不会彻底体面的
结束，因为我感觉她现在有点情绪不
稳定，想捅破这件事情
Zongyuan
This is one single matter. Let's put aside resolution methods for now.
你这个属于一件事，化解问题先不谈
Client
Okay, Zongyuan.
好的道长
Zongyuan
Send me your BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny) details.
你的八字发我吧
Client
I was born around [redacted] hour on the lunar calendar, birth place is Wanrong County, Yuncheng City, Shanxi Province, male.
我是农历[redacted]时左右出
生的，出生地在 山西省 运城市 万荣
县 性别男
Zongyuan
Okay. I'll look at it later and get back to you.
好的 晚点我看完了回复你
Client
Okay [emoji][emoji][emoji]
好的[emoji][emoji][emoji]
10:41
Zongyuan
Your spouse star is Wood. You need Wood and Fire, and Water is needed for marriage. Even if you get engaged in these two years, your fiancée is likely to leave, or fall out with you (also, it's easy to fail to get your parents' approval). Besides, this year [redacted] is too strong, there will be a lot of arguments, concentrated from summer to around August. You are prone to being reported, complained about, or having other disputes. Your third party is the Wood in Chen. From 2026 to 2027, the other person's desire for revenge will be very strong, with 2026 being stronger than 2027. You need to be mentally prepared. It will basically get better after entering 2028. A few suggestions: 1. Talk openly with your fiancée, tell her everything, and ask for forgiveness. If you don't take the initiative to tell her, she will find out passively later. 2. Talk properly with the girl who is the third party, or compensate her for mental damages. 3. You can carry a [redacted] with you, which can relatively alleviate the unfavorable situation.
夫妻星是木，需要见木火，见水才有婚姻。这两年即使订婚，你的订婚对象也容易跑路，或者和你闹掰（此外容易得不到父母的认可）。此外今年[redacted]过旺，口舌很多，就集中在夏季一直到8月附近，容易被举报，投诉或者有其他争执的事情。
你的第三者是辰中木，2026-2027年对方的报复心理对会很强，其中2026比2027年更强烈，你要有心理准备，进入2028年之后基本好转。
几个建议：
1 和你订婚对象开诚布公的说，交代清楚，请求原谅。如果不主动讲，后期也会被动知道。
2 和这个被三的姑娘好好说，或者赔偿对方精神损失。
3 你随身可以带一[redacted]，可以相对缓解不不利。
A few suggestions: 1. Talk openly with your fiancée, tell her everything, and ask for forgiveness. If you don't take the initiative to tell her, she will find out passively later. 2. Talk properly with the girl who is the third party, or compensate her for mental damages. 3. You can carry a [redacted] with you, which can relatively alleviate the unfavorable situation. 4. Regarding the engagement, I suggest you wait until the second half of 2027 to consider it, it will be relatively better. Reminder: In these two years, besides the two women you mentioned above, there will be other romantic prospects. You should pay more attention and restrain yourself.
几个建议：
1 和你订婚对象开诚布公的说，交代清楚，请求原谅。如果不主动讲，后期也会被动知道。
2 和这个被三的姑娘好好说，或者赔偿对方精神损失。
3 你随身可以带一个[redacted]，可以相对缓解不不利。
4 关于订婚的事情，建议你放到2027年的下半年再考虑，会相对好些。
提醒：这两年除了你上面提到的这两个女性，还会出现其他桃花，你自己多注意，约束好自己。
Please take note.
请收
Client
Zongyuan, the engagement date is already set. Is there any other good way?
道长订婚日子已经定了，还有什么好的办法吗
14:10
Also, if I take the initiative to confess to my partner, will this marriage not happen?
还有我主动和对象坦白的话，会不会这个婚就结不成了
Zongyuan
Whether the marriage will happen or not is up to fate, but the matter of confessing is something you must do. Because even if you don't do it, this matter will definitely come out later.
结不结得成这个由天定，但是坦白的这个事儿，你必须是必须是要去办的，因为即使你不办之后，这个事儿他一定会翻出来。
There is no other good way. Many things are a pair of cause and effect, right? Since you have done what you did before, you have to bear the result later. That is also the way of heaven.
没有其他什么好的办法，很多事情它
都是因果是一对儿嘛，是吧？你前面
的这个事情，既然你已经做了，后面
的这个结果就要承担嘛。这也是天道
啊。
14:15
Client
Indeed. I feel this time is my retribution. She found out about me chatting with this person before. At that time I also wanted to end it immediately, but the more entangled we got, the harder it was to end. That girl is just very unwilling.
确实，我感觉到这次就是我的报应，
之前就被她发现过和这个人聊天，当
时我也想马上结束，但是越纠缠越结
束不了，那个女孩就是很不甘
Zongyuan
Mm. This is something you have to face yourself.
嗯，这是你自己要去面对的。
A man should take responsibility. Admit what you have done, and leave the right to choose to the other person.
男人还是要有担当的，做了就认，选
择权交给对方。
Don't plant a mine for the future.
不要给未来埋雷。