A client asked about timing for having a child
A 35-year-old client who had two miscarriages asked about fertility. I looked at his BaZi and suggested home adjustments and medical guidance.
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Client
Hello Daoist, [redacted], I would like to consult you about having a child, thank you 🙏
道长吉祥，[redacted]，想咨询下您关于求子的事，感谢🙏
11:32
Hello Daoist, I am a student of Guang [redacted]. I want to ask about having a child. I am 35 this year, got married at 30 and have not had a child since. My wife has not been able to get pregnant. We asked for a talisman, and then she got pregnant but miscarried. This happened twice. I once took refuge and studied Buddhism and Daoism, I am a disciple of Quanzhen Longmen, but I practice Buddhism more. But after the second miscarriage I feel my faith has collapsed. I have practiced for so long on the path of seeking a child, only to get this result. The hospital cannot find any reason either. I am in deep pain, and I really want to find the reason, for
道长您好，我是广[redacted]的学生。
想咨询下求子一事，我今年35岁了，结婚30岁结婚到现在没有孩子，老婆一直怀不上，然后就求了符，然后怀孕了以后就流产了，两次都是这情况。我曾经拜师学过佛道，是全真龙门的弟子，但我修佛多一点，但是第二次流产我感觉信仰崩塌了，求子路上修了这么久法，换来这样的结果，医院也查不到什么原因，心情沉痛，然后我很想找原因，为
12:02
I feel I bring bad luck to my wife and children [emoji] My wife is in poor health
我感觉我克妻，克子女[emoji]妻子身体不好
12:11
I won't disturb your lunch break or work [emoji] Please reply when you have time [emoji] [emoji]
不打扰道长午休工作[emoji]有空再回复我[emoji]
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12:11
Zongyuan
Renshen [redacted] Your BaZi was born in the Wu month. The whole chart has a Wu-Wei combination, which means in summer, the noble point of the whole chart is You metal, which can control wood and protect earth. As long as you are in water and wood years, the child cannot hold on. Because Wei earth is the connected seal repository, if Wei earth collapses, the whole chart falls apart. The years for pregnancy need to be after water and wood have passed, and when You metal is activated. The time is in the second half of 2025 or 2028. Looking back, actually starting from 2022 you have been running around for the child, but from this year until the Jia Chen year are all earth-collapsing years, Wei earth cannot hold. On one hand your wife is in poor health, the condition of the uterus is not good; on the other hand the year chart does not support it. Several adjustment methods: 1. The Bing-Ren clash in the BaZi is qi transformation, meaning fire and water are in conflict. Corresponding to the home, it means there is cross airflow in your house, a piercing hall sha, such as door facing door, window facing door, or kitchen next to bathroom. This situation needs to be resolved to soften the airflow before conception can happen. 2. In the Mao luck pillar, it grows on Wei earth, and at the same time combines with Shen metal, scurrying on both sides, then Xu earth enters the chart. So if there are four-footed beasts in the house, such as qilin, pixiu, or dogs with unusual looks, find them and dispose of them.
壬申 [redacted]
八字生在午月，全局有午未合，证明在
夏季，全局的贵点是酉金，可以伐木护
土，只要走水木的年份都是孩子立不住
的，因为未土是连体的印库，未土塌了
全局都没有了。怀孕的年份需要水木走
完，且酉金被引动的时候，时间就在
2025年的下半年或者是2028年。
往前看，实际在2022年开始你们就一直
为了孩子奔波，但是这一年一直走到甲
辰年都是塌土的年份，未土立不住，一
方面你妻子身体不好，子宫状态不佳，
第二方面是流年不支持。
几个化解手段：
1 八字丙壬冲是气化的，就是水火交战，
对应到阳宅说明你们家里有气流对穿，
穿堂煞，比如门对门，窗对门，或者厨
房挨着浴室，这种情况需要化解，让气
流缓和，才可以受孕。
2 八字走卯运要长在未土上，同时再合申
金，两边窜，就有戌土入局，所以家里
有四脚兽，比如麒麟，貔貅或者长相不
是特别普遍的狗，要找出来之后处理
掉。
17:03
2. In the Mao luck pillar, it grows on Wei earth, and at the same time combines with Shen metal, scurrying on both sides, then Xu earth enters the chart. So if there are four-footed beasts in the house, such as qilin, pixiu, or dogs with unusual looks, find them and dispose of them. 3. Thin earth means thin endometrium, which is also an unstable uterine environment. It needs conditioning. The direction to look for treatment is west and northwest of your residence. Look for doctors with surnames Wang, Jin, Liu, use Chinese medicine plus acupuncture to help improve the uterine environment. 4. The house does not welcome anything that collapses earth. From what I see now, there are dragons and water. Do not keep any dragon-shaped toys, red envelopes, or dolls. Also do not keep aquatic plants, live animals, or paintings of animals. 5. At least one of you and your wife's WeChat avatars has water or the image of water (avatar or WeChat background, or recent WeChat photos), do not keep those. Your wife should use a phoenix avatar. 6. Focus on checking the southeast and southwest of the living room. Remove everything related to water, mirrors, black objects, or sharp objects. In the living [redacted],
2 八字走卯运要长在未土上，同时再合申金，两边窜，就有戌土入局，所以家里有四脚兽，比如麒麟，貔貅或者长相不是特别普遍的狗，要找出来之后处理掉。
3 土薄则子宫内膜薄，也是子宫环境不稳定，需要调理，寻找的调理方向是居住地西边和西北，找姓王，金，刘的医生，用中药＋针灸的方式帮助子宫环境变好。
4 家里不喜有任何东西塌土，我这会看，可以看到有龙有水，要找龙的造型的玩具，红包，玩偶都不要保留，此外水生植物，动物的实物，画像都不要保留。
5 你和你太太的微信头像至少有一人带水或者水的像意（头像或者微信背景，或者最近拍的微信照片），也不要保留，
你太太喜用凤凰头像。
6 家里的客厅东南和西南重点检查，所有和水，镜子，黑色物体，尖利物体有关的一律不保留。在客[redacted]，
Client
1. The house does have door facing door. Western medicine says no intercourse during the preparation period, we sleep in separate rooms, exactly door to door. The kitchen and bathroom are separated by one wall. 2. We don't keep pets, and I don't remember having qilin or other ornaments. I will go back and look for them. 3. We found a famous doctor with the surname Liu. She found the cause through genetic testing, and said my wife needs two heparin injections a day after pregnancy to anticoagulate, and keep injecting until delivery. But she is in Shenzhen, not in the northwest direction. 4. A previous master said water is good for adjusting the climate, so we bought a lot of water-themed bracelets and blue bedroom items. But I don't remember having dragons, I will look carefully. 5. Daoist, I have a question. Is my wife's favorable element for pregnancy earth and metal, and unfavorable element water and wood? My wife's last miscarriage was in the Mao luck pillar, Mao year, and Mao month [emoji]
1家里却是门对门，西医说备孕期不能同房，我们分房睡，正是门对门的。厨房和浴室一墙之隔。
2家里没有养宠物，也没想起有麒麟什么的摆件，我回去找一找看看
3我们找了一个姓刘的著名的医生，她检测了基因找到病因，说我老婆的病怀孕后要每天打两针肝素抗凝，一直打针打到生产。不过在深圳，没在西北方
4之前有大师说喜水调候，买了很多水的手串，蓝色的卧室用具，不过印象中好像没有龙，我回仔细找找看。
5道长，我有个疑问，我老婆在怀孕方面的喜神是土金，忌神是水木吗？我老婆上一次流产就是在卯的大运，卯的流年，卯的月份流产的[emoji]
17:22
Zongyuan
Okay, check 2 and 4 carefully. For 3, change the direction.
好的 24都要仔细看，3要改方向
Client
Thank you Daoist for such a careful and detailed explanation [emoji][emoji] How much is the consultation fee?
感谢道长如此用心的详细说明[emoji][emoji]请问法酬多少
Got it, I will go back and look carefully [emoji]
收到，我回去仔细找找[emoji]
Zongyuan
You were going through bad luck before, so people with poor skills misled you. Now water and wood have passed, entering the Yi Si year, there will be people who give you proper guidance, so you can have a child.
你之前走背运，所以就有水平有问题的人误导你，现在水木走完了进乙巳年，就会有人提点你，让你有孩子。
Client
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20:34
There is this thing in the southeast
东南有个这个东西
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Some red envelopes with dragon patterns
一些龙图案的红包
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20:34
These two pixiu were given by relatives when we got married
貔貅就这两个结婚时亲戚送的
Zongyuan
See if everything matches up
你看看是不是全部都对应上了
Not a single one is missed. So whatever your BaZi is like, there will be corresponding things in the house, none can escape.
无一错漏，所以你八字什么样，它就有
什么东西，一个跑不了
Client
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How to deal with this door facing door
这个门对门要怎么处理的
20:38
Zongyuan
Do you see the Taiji diagram with fish?
你看到鱼的太极图了吗
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Is it an aquatic creature
是不是水生物
Client
Yes
是
Zongyuan
[redacted]
[redacted]
Client
Got it!
收到！
Zongyuan
Go through each one I mentioned again to make sure nothing is missed.
你根据我说的一条条再去看一看，避免
有漏网之鱼
Client
I've been looking for a long time and only found these
我饭了很久了就找到这些了
I didn't notice the Taiji fish [emoji]
还有那个太极鱼没留意[emoji]
Zongyuan
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That's fine
可以的
Client
Can my wife wear gold instead of crystal?
我老婆不戴水晶可以戴金吗
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My wife's Moments have water, should I change [redacted] too?
我老婆的朋友圈有水也换[redacted]是吧
Zongyuan
The avatar is fine
头像问题不大
Change the background
背景换掉
Client
Got it!
收到！
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Daoist, what kind of painting is good to put up after taking this down?
道长，这个拆下来后放什么画好啊
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It's empty now [emoji]
现在空空的[emoji]
Zongyuan
Very thorough [emoji] Resolving the sha is the first step, next is supporting the qi, and finally conception
很认真[emoji]破煞是第一步，接下来是扶气，
最后是受孕