House and family

She got the marriage certificate, but the wedding was stuck

12 November 2024Jinan, Shandong Translated by AI

A client asked why her wedding plans kept stalling after getting the certificate. I told her the formal wedding would likely come in 2025, around summer, possibly with a pregnancy.

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Client
We got our marriage certificate in January, but nothing else has moved forward since. His family only talks about the wedding banquet verbally.
1月领证了,但是一直迟迟没有下文。他家都是口头上说摆酒什么的
Zongyuan
Mm, I'll get back to you later.
嗯 晚点我回复你
Client
Okay, thank you for your trouble 🌹 [emoji][emoji]
好,辛苦了🌹 [emoji][emoji]
Zongyuan
Female chart: Xin Wei [redacted] This BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny) is born in the You month. The spouse star is the internal Bing fire, and the seal star is also fire. It will not count as a real marriage until 2025. This year is Jia Chen, there is only the relationship star, and it is held back, so there are many setbacks. They show as: 1. The seal star does not arrive, so home does not feel like home. You and your husband do not spend much time together, or one of you travels back and forth, not staying together long-term. There is also friction in the relationship. 2. The seal star represents parents and elder support. When it does not arrive, the two sides cannot agree on things, including arrangements for your married life, the wedding house, who pays for the banquet, and so on. Other notes: Next year the seal star arrives, so there will be a banquet, and it will count as formally entering marriage. Also, I see the children star arrives around the same time, so it is very likely that the banquet will happen after pregnancy, or both will happen around the same time, most probably around summer next year.
女命: 辛未 [redacted] 八字生在酉月,夫妻星是家内的丙火, 印星也是火。必须是要到 2025 年才可以 真正算结婚。今年是甲辰,只有感情星, 且感情星又受到牵绊,就有很多不顺, 体现在: 1 印不到,家不像家,你和你老公在一起 时间不算多,或者有一个人两边跑,不 是长久在一起,感情上也有嫌隙。 2 印是父母和长辈庇护,印不到,则双方 有谈不拢的地方,包括你俩婚后生活的 安排,婚房,谁掏钱办酒之类的。 其他提示:明年的印到了,酒席会有, 算是正式进入婚姻了,再一个是看到你 子女星缘分同时期到,所以很可能是怀 孕后办酒或者同时发生,时间在明年夏 季前后,概率大一些。
9月28日 下午15:08
Client
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Good afternoon, Zongyuan. That was so accurate. We recently picked the 18th of the first lunar month for the banquet. Because of reasons on his side, we cannot hold the banquet from February to August. His parents said they would pay for the banquet, so that's how it got settled.
道长中午好。太准了。我们最近选到了正月十八摆酒,因为他家那边原因,2-8月都不能摆酒。目前他爸妈说摆酒钱他们掏,所以才定下来了。
11:54
Zongyuan
Zongyuan: Female chart: Xin Wei Ding You Ji Chou Bing Yin This BaZi is born in the You month. The spouse star is the internal Bing fire…
猫猫道长🌾:女命:辛未 丁酉 己丑 丙寅 八字生在酉月,夫妻星是家内的丙火,…
Good 🌹😀
好🌹😀
12:01

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