He asked about his marriage and the timing of a split
A man asked about his troubled marriage. I told him the years of risk, and that filing this year would mean smaller losses.
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Client
Zongyuan, my situation is a bit complicated. I'm afraid I can't explain it clearly in just a sentence or two.
师傅 我这事有点复杂 一句两句我怕
说不清楚
Zongyuan
Even complicated things can be explained clearly.
再复杂的也可以说清楚
10:24
Client
Alright, I'll organize my thoughts briefly.
那行 我简单整理一下语言
I'd like you to take a look at my marriage.
我想请您帮我看下婚姻
Zongyuan
Send me your BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny).
你八字发我吧
You don't need to say anything else first.
先不用说了
Client
I'm male, born in 1987 [redacted], around 30 minutes past the hour. My wife was born in 1993 [redacted], around 3 o'clock.
我是男 1987年[redacted]
30分左右生人
妻子是1993年[redacted]
3时左右生人
Zongyuan
Got it.
知道了
Client
Thank you for your time, Zongyuan.
麻烦师傅
Zongyuan
Ding Mao [redacted]. In your BaZi, the spouse star is si fire. You have two spouse stars in your own chart, which means you are prone to having relationships outside the home — in other words, you tend to have strong romantic luck. Looking back, your relationship started having marital troubles from 2023, and it peaked in 2024. Looking ahead, you will most likely have a second marriage. The years of marital trouble are this spring, and 2027. Sooner, it will be this spring; later, it will be 2027. Also, your marriage problems involve a lot of people — your parents are involved too. After you separate, you will lose a portion of your property.
丁卯[redacted]
八字的夫妻星是巳火，你自己本身夫
妻星两现，就容易家外有家，也就是
桃花也比较旺。实际上往前看，从
2023年开始你感情就已经出现婚灾，
到了2024年达到高峰，往后看，你多
11:02
Your wife's BaZi: Gui You. In her chart, the spouse star is wood. Her chart also has its own issues. One is that she is highly dissatisfied with her partner, and likes to compare her partner with other men. Another is that wood and fire represent feelings; since your relationship went bad in 2023, she has also had people to talk to (romantic interests). The timing of marital trouble is also when chen and wei appear — one is this spring, the other is 2027. Right now, the main thing is whether the two of you still want to stay together. If you already don't care, then separate and find someone else. If you both think you can still talk it over, then I suggest you two get a fake divorce or separate in 2026-2027, and make a plan again in 2028.
丁卯
八字的夫妻星是巳火，你自己本身夫妻星两现，就容易家外有家，也就是桃花也比较旺。实际上往前看，从2023年开始你感情就已经出现婚灾，到了2024年达到高峰，往后看，你多数二婚，婚灾年份一个是在今年春天，一个是在2027年。也就是快的话在今年春，慢的话在2027年。而且你们婚姻问题牵扯也比较广，父母也参与其中，且离散后你会损失一部分财产。
你妻子八字:
癸酉
八字的夫妻星是木，这个八字也有自己问题，一个是对于配高度不满，喜欢拿自己对象和其他男人比较，再一个是木火是感情，从你们2023年感情不好开始，她也自己有一些说话的人(桃花)。婚灾时间也是见辰见未，一个是今年春季，一个是27年。
目前主要看，你俩还要不要过，如果已经觉得无所谓了，那就分开了再找。如果都觉得还可以谈一谈，那么建议你俩2026-2027年办假离婚或者分居，2028年再做打算。
Please receive this.
请收
11:05
Client
Thank you for your guidance, Zongyuan. I still have a few points I'd like to ask about.
感谢师傅指点 我还有几个点想请教一下
Zongyuan
Go ahead.
你讲
11:12
Client
During the marriage, I myself [redacted]. We are currently separated. I've tried many times to reach her or her family, but they won't see me or talk to me. The next step is basically divorce. But my personal property is all under her control. I asked for my pre-marital personal property, and she won't give it back. I'd like to ask a few things.
婚内我本人[redacted] 我
俩现在处于分居状态 我多次想找她或者她家人 她们根本不见不谈 下一步
基本就是离婚 但我个人财产都在她手里控制 我要我婚前个人财产 她也不给我
我想请教几个事
Zongyuan
Go ahead.
你讲
11:12
Client
During the marriage, I [redacted]. We are currently separated. I've tried many times to reach her or her family, but they won't see me or talk to me. The next step is basically divorce. But my personal property is all under her control. I asked for my pre-marital personal property, and she won't give it back. I'd like to ask a few things. First, was the child actually born? Was it aborted, or was it born? If it was born, is it mine? Second, is she seeing someone else — is she cheating? If she is, can I catch her with evidence? Third, if we get divorced, will it be a peaceful split or will we go to court? Around which month can this whole thing be resolved? Fourth, roughly how much property will I lose in the divorce?
婚内我[redacted] 我俩现在处于分居状态 我多次想找她或者她家人 她们根本不见不谈 下一步基本就是离婚 但我个人财产都在她手里控制 我要我婚前个人财产 她也不给我
我想请教几个事
一是这个孩子到底出生了没有 是打掉了还是生下来了 如果生下来是不是我的
二是她外面有人是否出轨 如果出轨我能否抓到
三是如果离婚会是和平分手还是打官司 大概几月份能够彻底解决这个事
四是离婚我大概会损失多少财产
After the marriage broke down and we separated in June 2024, there was someone who pursued me around September and October last year. We had a brief contact, and it ended completely by the end of the year.
24年六月婚姻破碎分居后 在去年九十月有过一个追求者 短暂接触年底彻底断绝
11:16
Zongyuan
I'll answer these questions for you.
我回答你这几个问题
1. There was indeed a child. It was born, and there is a high probability it is yours. 2. She is cheating. You will not be able to get evidence.
1 确实有子女 生下来了，是你的概率大。
2 有出轨，你拿不到证据。
Client
Then what do you think I should do now to minimize my losses?
那您看 我现在应该怎么做能最大减少
损失
Zongyuan
The year that is favorable to you is this year, not 2027.
对你有利的年份是今年，而不是 27
年。
This year, I suggest you file for divorce directly. That way, your losses will be smaller.
本年建议你直接起诉离婚，反而损失
少。
If you divorce in 2027, the losses will be large.
27 年离婚损失大
Client
Divorce is definitely happening. I just want to protect my property as much as possible.
离婚肯定是离了 只想最大可能保全
财产
Thank you for clearing this up for me, Zongyuan.
感谢师傅为我解惑
11:48
After this happened, I went to see many people for readings. But what you said really left me completely convinced.
发生这个事后 我也找过不少人看了
但您说的真是让我五体投地
Zongyuan
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Client
Zongyuan, I have one last request. I don't know when you'll be free, but I'd like to come back for an in-person divination.
师傅 最后还有个请求 不知道您什么
时候方便了 我想回去一趟请您面卦
Your reading was very accurate. I feel like these three years have been really unlucky, and my marriage has been very rough. I'd like to visit you in person, to see if I'm just not suited for marriage, and if there's a possibility I could take up a spiritual path.
您看的特别准的 我觉得这三年特别
不顺 婚姻之事也挺坎坷 想当面拜见
您 看看我是不是就不适合结婚 有没
有可能走修行的路
12:01
Zongyuan
Haha, alright. We can arrange it when there's a chance.
哈哈好 之后有机会安排