A marriage reading, and what held true later
She asked about her marriage. I noted tension starting in 2024, and harder years around 2027-2029.
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Zongyuan
Looking at your BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny) [redacted], the risk comes when the wood storage arrives — that is when marriage troubles tend to show up. In practice, your relationship with your husband has not been smooth from 2024 up to this year. It is also easy for a third person to come between you two; he tends to have romantic entanglements, and your chart also shows that tendency in these two years.
After 2024 passes, things can勉强 hold up on the surface. Next year and the year after will also be manageable, but there will be less communication and more conflicts. Then from 2027 to 2029, it will be quite difficult — that period is hard to get through without marriage-related strain. If it really comes to that time, there are two choices: one is divorce, the other is separation or a formal divorce that stays practical, which can reduce friction. Once that period passes, the relationship will improve somewhat in 2030.
The second issue is that your roles are reversed. You are somewhat taking on the father's role in the family — meaning your husband, as a spouse, does not fulfill many of the fatherly duties. He is either neglectful or not home much, and you have taken over that role. That is another tiring point in the marriage.
But overall, your chart favors fire element, so it is not suitable for you to live alone or raise the children alone. I still suggest you try to maintain the marriage as much as you can.
八字[redacted],就怕木的库到,
就有婚灾,实际上你会你老公的感情
从2024年开始到今年都不算融洽,且
你俩中间容易犯三角恋,他容易有桃
花,你的八字在这两年也容易有桃
花。
但是呢2024年过去之后勉强面子上还
能过去,明后年也还可以,但是交流
少,矛盾多。之后到了2027-2029年
就比较吃力,这期间婚灾比较难度过。
真的到了这个时期,就两个选择,一
个是离婚,一个是分居或者假离婚,
可以减少一些摩擦,等过了这个坎,
到了2030年感情会有所好转。
第二个问题是你们角色颠倒,你有点
母占父位的意思,就是你的配偶作为
老公,很多父亲职责都没有做到,他
失职或者不在家里多待,你替代了这
个角色,这也是婚姻里比较累的一个
点。
但是总体看,你的八字用火,因此也
不适合一个人过或者一个人带孩子,
还是建议你能维持的情况下,尽量维
持。
Please take this.
请收
昨天 17:17
Client
Okay, okay.
好的好的
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This is my family of four.
这是我一家四口
Zongyuan
Mm [emoji]
嗯[emoji]
Your husband has poor liver health.
你老公肝脏不好啊
Client
Yes.
是
My father-in-law passed away from liver cancer.
我公公肝癌去世的
People with bad livers should avoid alcohol and stay up less, but he does not listen even when I tell him.
肝不好的人要忌酒少熬夜,可是说了也不听。
Zongyuan
It is in the genes, hard to persuade.
基因里带着,不好劝
His kidney function is also not very good. Pay attention to prostate issues, urinary tract stones, and gout.
肾脏功能也不是太好,注意前列腺和尿路结石,痛风
Client
He does have those.
有的呢
Zongyuan
Mm.
嗯
Your health is also not great. Pay attention to your mood, breast health, and uterus — all of these need care.
你身体也不好,情绪,乳腺和子宫,
自己都要注意了。
How is your relationship with him now?
你俩现在关系怎么样
Client
I do have those issues too.
有的
We barely communicate.
少沟通
Zongyuan
Mm. Does he go out often?
嗯 他出去的频繁么
Client
He travels for work a lot.
经常出差
Zongyuan
Mm. That pattern ran through 2024. This year is slightly better, but still not ideal.
嗯 那年会贯穿到24年 今年略微好点,
也不算理想
Client
Yes.
是的
Zongyuan
Mm, these next few years are still manageable. The key period is 2027-2029.
嗯,这几年还可以 重点是27-29年。
Do you know about his romantic entanglements?
他桃花的情况你清楚吗
Client
I know a little.
知道点
Zongyuan
Do you have proof?
证据有吗
Client
Just chat records.
就是聊天记录
Zongyuan
Other than that, there is not much else to say. Create more parent-child activities. Because when it comes to feelings, it is not as simple as saying he can just cut it off. A lot of things are involved — like emotional debts, which are really hard to handle. So the only thing is, do your own part well, and do it properly.
其他的,其他其实也没啥了,多创造点这个亲子活动。因为这个感情这个事儿,嗯,不是说让他能断了他就能断,就很这很多东西涉及到啊。感情债之类的,他确实不好处理,所以只能说,你把自己的事儿给他做好,给他做到位了。
Also, although you seem quite positive when you talk to me, from the actual chart and from your profile picture, you currently have a somewhat negative mindset emotionally. Right now, your only motivation in life seems to be your children.
然后呢,嗯,虽然你跟我讲话的时候我感觉你挺积极,但是从这个实际的这个盘里啊,包括你这个头像来看,嗯,你现在这个情绪上。多少是有一点这种消极的这个心态,在你现在这个生活动力应该是只有孩子。
You should find more hobbies to support yourself, and take better care of your health.
自己要去多找一点这种兴趣爱好,把自己支撑起来,然后身体上多去调理调理吧。
Client
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What kind of profile picture do you suggest?
头像建议用什么呢?
Okay.
好的