House and family

She went to Qinghai anyway, and the issue came up

30 January 2024Jinan, Shandong Translated by AI

A client asked if she should travel to Qinghai to see a man. I advised against it. She went anyway, and found he had lied about his relationship status.

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Client

I was planning to drive back to my hometown alone on the 25th, rest for two days, then fly to Qinghai to see a male friend I've known for two years. I already booked the flight. Should I go?

我原本想25号一个人开车回老家，休息 2天，坐飞机去青海看一个认识了2年的男士朋友，机票也定好了，我要不要去?

Zongyuan

Send me your BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny).

发你的八字出来

1月23日上午10:53

I'll look at it later and get back to you.

我晚点看好了回你

Client

🙏🙏🙏

1月23日上午10:58

Zongyuan

Ding Si, Wu Shen, [redacted]. This BaZi is currently in the Zi luck pillar. During the Shen luck pillar, the main focus is refining metal. The Bing Wu at home and Ding Si outside are both useful elements. This BaZi most avoids wood year charts: when wood appears, on one hand behavior goes off track, and on the other hand judgment becomes clouded, leading to wrong decisions. Fire is the spouse star for this chart, and wood is the relationship star. This is the Gui Mao year. You two have some romantic involvement, but it is wrong and meaningless against this year's chart. Right now is the Yi Chou month: the water from within Chou nourishes the Mao wood, making the wood qi of the year even more damp and cold, which also represents poor decision-making. I advise against traveling; it is likely to cause unnecessary trouble.

丁巳戊申 [redacted] 这个八字目前在子运上，八字在申运主要是炼金为主。家内的丙午和家外的丁巳都是用神。这个八字最忌讳的是见到木的流年，见木一方面行为上出现偏差，另一方面脑袋不好使，做错误决策。这个八字的火是夫妻星，木是感情星，现在是癸卯年，你俩有一些男女方面的牵扯，但是挡在今年的流年里是错误的，也是没有意义的。现在刚好是乙丑月，是丑中出来的水浇灌卯木，太岁的木气更加湿冷，也代表决策错误。建议不出行，容易引起不必要的麻烦。

Please take this.

请收

Client

So your advice is not to go? But I already booked the flight and everything. If I go anyway, I'm afraid there will be trouble? We're both single. If I still go, what should I pay attention to?

建议不出行是吧，只是机票什么都定了，如果去了怕有麻烦是吧？都是单身，假如还是需要注意什么吗？

Zongyuan

If you still decide to go, then you need to be careful about issues that come up when you're together.

如果还是要去，那你自己就要注意相处时的问题了

Client

🙏🙏🙏 Okay, I'll think about it.

🙏🙏🙏好的我考虑一下

Hello Zongyuan, there really was a problem with how we got along 👍 He was dishonest.

道长你好确实相处出了问题👍 他不诚实

12:08

Zongyuan

Are you coming back?