House and family

He came back to say his partner had found someone else

16 March 2024Jinan, Shandong Translated by AI

He asked about his marriage outlook. Later he got back in touch to say the note about his partner straying had come true.

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Client
Zongyuan, what will my marriage situation be like?
猫猫老师,我的婚姻状况会如何
Zongyuan
Xinsi [redacted] In your BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny), the external part of the chart is dry, and the zi water inside the home palace is your spouse star. Marriage comes when water and wood appear in the chart. So there is a marriage opportunity in 2024-2025. If you do not marry in these two years, the relationship will end, and the next marriage window will be around 2031. The yiwei pillar outside the home palace is bi jie with yin seal, so early relationships face obstacles: first, opposition from family, and second, partners are prone to straying. There is also bi jie on the year pillar. So your marriage can only work out after two failed relationships. Between your two marriage windows, that is between 2024 and 2031, there is also a year of marriage trouble: 2027 will bring obstacles and不顺 (setbacks) in the relationship. All things considered, I suggest talking things through properly with your partner's mother in 2024. If it does not work out, do not cling to it — let it go directly. Work on improving yourself before the next opportunity comes. If you do get married in 2024, do not be overly relieved: pay extra attention to relationship trouble in 2027, and consider living apart for a period then.
辛巳 [redacted] 八字家外燥,家内的子水是夫妻星,需要见水,见木的时候有婚姻。因此近处在2024-2025年会有婚姻,这两年不结婚就要分手,再结婚要在2031年附近才可以结婚。 你的八字家外乙未一柱,是比劫带印了,因此早年婚姻受阻,一是被家里人反对,二是对象容易劈腿。年上还有比劫。所以你的婚姻必须是有两次失败的感情经历之后,才能修成正果。且在你两次婚动之间,也就是2024-2031年之间还有婚灾年份,在2027年还有婚姻上的阻碍和不顺。 结合来看,建议2024年和其母好好谈一谈,如不能成,不要执着,直接放弃。在下一次机会之前好好提升自己。如果2024年有幸结婚,也不要过于高兴,2027年需要多注意婚灾,适当分居。
2月13日 上午10:22
Client
Zongyuan, I was a bit skeptical about what you said before about partners being prone to straying, but now I have to believe it. Especially around Chinese New Year, she already found someone else. My goodness, it's a bit hard to believe [emoji]
猫猫老师,之前我还有点不相信你说的 对象容易劈腿这件事,现在不得不信, 尤其是过年的时候她都找好下一个啦, 我滴个天,有点难以置信[emoji]
18:57
Zongyuan
Mm.
People cannot go against the timing of things.
人不可违天
Client
Zongyuan, I really admire you.
猫猫老师,真的好崇拜你
Zongyuan
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