A relationship divination, and the timing of the breakup
He asked about his relationship. I said it would fade, with a breakup likely next year. He came back to say it had ended, on the timeline mentioned.
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Client
Hi, I was wondering if I could get a divination for myself, about my relationship.
就是请问下能不能看个卦，我自己的，
感情
I sent a message last week, I guess you were too busy [emoji]
上周发了消息，好像猫神太忙了[emoji]
Zongyuan
Give me both of your birth years and months.
你俩的出生年月给我吧
2025年12月15日 14:51
Client
Sure. Mine: Xin Wei year, [redacted]. Hers: Wu Chen year, [redacted].
好的 我自己，辛未年，[redacted]
她的话，戊辰年，[redacted]
Zongyuan
Outer plate [redacted]. On the outer plate, the month and day clash secretly, the month and year combine secretly, and the hour pillar falls into earth. The overall tone is that the relationship will not develop much; it will gradually quiet down. During this quiet period there will be arguments, and they will come suddenly. After the argument, it will basically head toward a breakup.
The male born in Xin Wei falls in [redacted]. Kun meets water, then meets Tai Yin, and Geng and Gui clash. This relationship does not give you a sense of belonging to a family. Besides, the clash is in the earthly branches — you already have the thought of leaving, you are just waiting for a trigger (like an argument blowing up). But with Tai Yin here, you are also passive and do not want to bring it up first.
外盘 [redacted]
外盘月日暗冲，月年暗合，时柱入土，
大基调上感情没有太大的发展，属于
逐渐沉寂。在沉寂的过程里涉及争吵，
且来的急，吵完基本上就奔着分手去
了。
男命辛未落在[redacted] 坤见水，再见太
阴，庚癸还冲。这个感情没有给你家
庭归属感，此外冲在地支，你自己已
经有了跑路的打算，就是在等一个契
机（比如争吵的爆发）。但是临太阴，
你又比较被动，不想主动提出来。
2025年12月15日 15:02
The female born in Wu Chen falls in [redacted], which is empty. She is empty-clashed by the Kun hexagram, and the two of you are on inner and outer plates — either you are in a long-distance relationship, or you spend little time together. Communication is also not smooth right now. Male clashing female with an empty clash also means the man's desire to end things is dominant. Once the empty is filled, the clash can take effect. This goes back to the earlier point: waiting for the right moment.
The female is in [redacted], clashing Liu He. She is not in this relationship for marriage; being with you is basically a transitional period for her, she does not think about the future. And with Jiu Tian here, it also means when the relationship breaks down, she will leave your environment or city.
Finally, looking at Liu He: when combination meets clash, the relationship does not remain. It is in the Wu position. Broadly speaking, the breakup will happen next year. When water and fire meet, an event will trigger an argument between you two, and after you seize this opportunity, you will initiate the end of the relationship, and the other person will go along with it.
In terms of timing: when water and fire meet, there will be minor arguments in the Zi month of this year. The breakup period will be the three months of Ren Chen, Gui Si, and Jia Wu next year. But since Liu He gives birth to you, you will break up with one and meet another next year.
女命戊辰落在[redacted]，空亡了，受到坤卦空克，且你俩距离在内外盘。要么是异地恋，要么是聚少离多，而且现在沟通上也不顺利。男克女空克也是男性的想要结束的想法占主导，只要填实就可以克，还是回到上一点，等待时机。
女在[redacted] 冲六合，她恋爱不是冲着结婚去的，和你相处基本也是过渡期，没有想着未来要如何。且这里临九天，也代表你俩关系破裂，她会离开你的环境或者城市。
最后看六合，合见冲，感情不存，在午位，大范围明年分手，水火相见的时候，会有一个事件触发，导致你俩的口舌，而你抓住这个机会之后，由你发起关系终结，对方顺势结束。
时间上，水火相见，今年的子月有轻微口舌，到了明年的壬辰，癸巳，甲午三个月为分开应期。但是由于六合生你，那么明年会分一个，好一个。
Please take this.
请收
Client
Thank you, this is very accurate for the current situation [emoji][emoji] [emoji]
感谢，非常准，对于目前的判断[emoji][emoji]
[emoji]
Oh right, so I shouldn't rush to go to a matchmaking agency or ask people to introduce someone, right?
哦哦 就是我自己不要急着去婚介所，
或者求人介绍是吧
Zongyuan
Mm. Think about that again around the Gui Si month next year.
嗯 明年癸巳月前后 再考虑这个事儿
Client
Got it, got it. I'll talk about that later.
明白明白，那个以后再说
Zongyuan
Mm.
嗯
Client
Right now I'm thinking about how to bring it up with my current partner. I was thinking January. That lines up pretty well with the timing you mentioned.
我目前是考虑和现任怎么提出来，想
的是1月份吧。落实下来和猫神说的
时间挺符合
Zongyuan
To put it plainly, you don't want to be the one who brings it up (and be called heartless). So there will be a moment of argument, and you will bring it up naturally. There's nothing wrong with that.
说白了，你不想做提出来的人(被人说
心狠)，所以会有一个吵架的时机，你
自然提出，无可厚非。
Client
Your analysis is right, that's exactly it. But the woman's attitude is vague, and it's not good if it doesn't end.
分析得对，是这样。但是女方态度模
糊，不终止也不太好
I just saw you posted a relationship divination on your Moments [emoji]. I wanted to give feedback too.
刚刚看到猫神发了一个pyq是感情的卦[emoji] 我也反馈一下呢
昨天 13:52
Zongyuan
Go ahead.
请说
Client
The last divination was overall very accurate. I've already broken up with my ex. The main timing was the Zi month of last year. Right before Christmas, she suddenly made me really mad, and I suddenly didn't want to see her anymore. We didn't spend New Year's together, then she sent a message saying let's call it off. I thought about it and agreed, then mailed her things back. We haven't contacted each other since.
上次的卦整体是判断很准的。已经和前任分手了，应期去年的子月为主。圣诞节前突然把我惹毛了，突然不想见面了。没有一起过元旦，然后女方发了消息说算了吧。我考虑后同意，直接邮寄东西。再也没有联系。
Zongyuan
Mm, okay 🌹
嗯好🌹
Client
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I mailed the things out exactly on 2/6–2/7, which is after Start of Spring. So saying it would happen in the Horse year was also right [emoji]
东西寄出去刚好是2/6-2/7。也就是立春以后。所以说马年分也对[emoji]
昨天 13:59
Zongyuan
Mm, that fits quite well.
嗯，挺符合的
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