A relationship that kept pulling back, and when it finally ended
She asked how to end a tangled relationship with no future. I said the second half of the year would settle it — either marriage or a breakup.
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Zongyuan
Was it the same person you asked about last time?
你上回问的也是这人是不
Client
Mm-hmm, yes, I asked you about this before [emoji]
嗯嗯，是的，我之前问过您了哈[emoji]
I probably didn't save the chat records, sorry [emoji]
我应该是没有存聊天记录，抱歉[emoji]
Zongyuan
I still have them here [emoji]
我这还有[emoji]
Client
Then do I still need to ask you to look at it again? [emoji]
那我还需要请您看吗[emoji]
Zongyuan
Not really. The second half of this year is when it will be settled. If you don't get married, you'll break up.
实际不用了，今年的下半年，就是见分晓的时候了，不结婚就要分手。
If you break up, there will be someone new.
如果分手了就有新人
Client
We've thought we'd break up countless times, but... we keep pulling each other back, never able to cut it off [emoji]
我两无数次的觉得要分手，但……又老是拉扯，总断不了[emoji]
Zongyuan, can we actually break up?
老师，那我和他能分得了吗？
When we say we're splitting up we're both very decisive, but before long we come back to each other [emoji][emoji]
说分开的时候都很决断，但过不了多久又会回来[emoji][emoji]
This back-and-forth is draining. Thank you for still having my records [emoji]
反复拉锯战，有点内耗，谢谢您那里还有我的资料[emoji]
2025年7月26日 16:07
Zongyuan
After this year, it will be clear. Either marriage or breakup — the timing will arrive.
过了今年，可以分清楚，要么就是结婚，要么就是分手，时间点到了。
You can take October to November as a turning point.
可以把10-11月作为一个灵界点
A critical point.
临界点
Client
Okay. I'm just curious — will it be this person in this relationship? [emoji]
好的，只是好奇这段感情里会是这个人吗？[emoji]
If I want things to work out with him, what should I do? Is there room to change the outcome?
如果我想和他有结果，需要怎么做？
有改的余地？
Zongyuan
Just handle it through ordinary actions. Take him home to talk about marriage in October. If he's the one, it will be settled this autumn. If not, it's over.
就人事上操作就好，你10月带他回家谈婚事就好，如果是他，今年秋季一锤定音了。如果不是就拉倒。
Client
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Zongyuan
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2025年7月26日 16:15
Client
If there's an outcome I'll share it with you right away 🙏 thank you so much
有结果一定第一时间和您分享🙏感恩
Zongyuan
Okay [emoji]
好呢[emoji]
Client
If you ever have a chance to visit Guiyang, I'll definitely be your guide [emoji] [emoji]
有机会欢迎来贵阳玩，一定当好导游
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Zongyuan
[emoji][emoji][emoji][emoji] okay
[emoji][emoji][emoji][emoji]好
2025年7月26日 16:23
Client
Zongyuan, I've been following your Moments and I find them very grounding. I'm grateful to have you in my circle. I just wanted to send you a message and wish you happiness and smooth days [emoji][emoji]
老师，一直都在关注您的朋友圈，感觉很有能量，感恩圈里有您，就是想给您发个信息，祝您开心顺意[emoji][emoji]
2025年8月26日 15:22
Zongyuan
Thank you [emoji][emoji]
谢谢你[emoji][emoji]
Client
Hi Zongyuan [emoji] I'm updating you — I consulted you before, I don't know if you still remember. I remember you said the relationship would have a conclusion around November. It's December now, and we haven't separated yet, but it feels like it can't go on. I wanted to ask if there's any external method that could help? [emoji][emoji][emoji]
老师，您好[emoji]给您报告下，我之前找您给我看过，不知您是否还有印象，
我记得是说大概11月份这段感情会有个了结，现在12月了，还没有分离，
但又觉得好不下去，想请教您有什么好的外力方法帮助否？ [emoji][emoji][emoji]
2025年12月31日 12:09
Zongyuan
This year's Wood phase is almost over. It will fade.
今年木马上走完了 会淡的
Client
I've been drained by this for a long time.
我之前内耗很久了
This relationship definitely has no future, right? 🙏
这段感情肯定是没结果的状态哈? 🙏
Zongyuan
Yes.
对
Client
🙏
🙏
Good morning Zongyuan, just updating you — it's been almost three months since my ex and I broke up. This time it's final. It's pretty much what you told me before, so accurate. Thank you! I wanted to give you this feedback 🌹☕
老师，早上好，给您报告下，和前任分手到现在快三个月了，这次彻底分开了，和您之前给我说的情况差不多，太准了，谢谢！特给您反馈 🌹☕
11:32
Zongyuan
Okay 🌹 Start your new life 😀
好 🌹 开始新生活😀
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