She asked if the other man would stay
A client asked about her friend’s marriage and the third party involved. I read the BaZi charts and noted the patterns around separation timing.
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Zongyuan
Her overall BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny) is cold in nature, so yang energy is favorable. But the spouse star appears twice: one outside the home in xu, one inside the home in ding. A chart with bi-jie accompanied by yin always points to divorce, and triangular relationships in marriage. This year is the year of Gui Mao. The couple’s relationship has been poor since around 2021, with marital trouble or separation. This year, 2023, mao wood enters the chart and changes the source of fire, making things even harder to sustain. Next year is Jia Chen: chen and xu clash, the storage breaks open, and things tend to come to an end. Separation or a nominal divorce can avoid a full split. After 2025, the relationship can gradually ease. The man’s chart: first three pillars [redacted]. His spouse star also appears twice, another sign of multiple marriages. In 2024, earth collapses, which tends to pull the couple apart. Again, separation or a nominal divorce can avoid a full split. Things can improve after 2025.
整体八字寒，喜见阳气，但是夫妻星两现，一个在家外戌，一个在家内丁，比劫带印的八字必要离婚，且婚姻中犯三角关系。今年是癸卯年，从 2021 年前后开始夫妻关系就不太好，婚灾或者分居，到了今年 2023 年卯木入局改变了火的来源，更加是不能过了。明年甲辰年，辰戌冲，库散了，容易画上句号，分居或者假离婚可免。到了 2025 年之后可以逐渐有关系的缓和。
男命:
前三柱[redacted]
夫妻星两现，也是多婚信号，2024 年土塌，容易夫妻分散，也是分居分居或者假离婚可免。2025 年之后可以好转。
This relationship has been a long-standing problem.
这感情是老大难啊
The hard part is not the daily life — it’s the constant triangular relationships.
苦的不是日子 是总有三角关系
11:02
Client
I don’t know all the details, but I have a general sense. They’ve known each other for almost 20 years, and their relationship has always been lukewarm. Recently there really is a so-called third party, who has asked her to get a divorce.
细节不算很清楚，但是大致情况还是了解的，认识快 20 年了，夫妻两个关系一直不冷不热，最近的确是有所谓的第三者出现了，且有让她离婚
Your BaZi reading… it’s really accurate. Could you take a look and see if this man is someone she can stay with long-term?
您看八字。。。真的。。太厉害，那要不您看看，这个男人是不是可以走下去呢？
Zongyuan
Which man?
哪个男的？
Client
Let me look through the records, she mentioned it.
我翻一下记录噢，她有提过
Born March 21, 1982.
82 年 3 月 21 日
Zongyuan
This is also a chart pointing to second marriage.
这也是个二婚命呢
11:04
This man still has a wife tied to him — either he’s not divorced yet, or he’s still entangled with an ex-wife.
这男的自己也有妻子扯着，要么是没离婚，要么有前妻牵绊的
He cannot get divorced this year.
今年不能离婚
We can look again next year.
明年再看看
If he doesn’t divorce next year, she should stay with her original husband.
明年不离她就继续和原配过
Client
I heard… he’s already divorced, but… they’re divorced but still living in the same house.
听说噢。。。已经离婚了，但是。。。
离婚不离家
Zongyuan
That’s what I meant.
是这个意思
Client
You’re so accurate… I was halfway through typing, and you already saw he had a wife he was tied to.
您太厉害了。。。我打字打了一半。。你已经看出他有妻子牵绊
Zongyuan
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