Work and choice

She asked about career promotion and marriage outlook

2 December 2025Jinan, Shandong Translated by AI

A client asked about career promotion, workplace issues, and her marriage outlook after divorce. I went over her BaZi chart and the years ahead.

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Client
I want to see if there are any promotion opportunities later on, and where things are heading. There are too many petty people at work, I want to avoid them.
看看后续还有无机会提拔、以及走向。 职场小人太多了想规避下
I want two readings.
我看两卦
The other one is for marriage. My ex-husband and I officially divorced in [redacted] month, [redacted] no marriage anymore. Thank you for looking at the future of my marriage, my family is rushing me again~
另一卦看婚姻,我和前夫[redacted]月正式离婚,[redacted]无婚姻了,谢谢看下婚姻后续走向,家里人又在催~
13:33
Please help me look, Master.
请大师帮忙看下
Is my fate just that it's hard to find someone who treats me well?
我的命格是不是很难找一个对我好的么
Zongyuan
Okay, I'll get back to you after I look at it later.
好 晚点我看完了回复你
Client
Okay.
好的
14:11
Zongyuan
Bingyin [redacted]. Under the [redacted] of your BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny), the overall chart is dominated by [redacted] metal. Looking back, in 2024 your bank had major changes, mostly involving large-scale organizational restructuring. Your work was also quite tiring. Even though it didn't feel good, you still managed to get things done. Starting from this year, your income and benefits have been gradually declining.
丙寅[redacted] 八字的[redacted]下,全局[redacted]金为主。 往前看,在2024年你们银行变化很大,多数涉及大规模的组织架构调整, 你的工作也比较劳累,虽然体感不佳, 但是还算有作为。这一年开始的收入, 待遇逐渐下滑。
15:14
By 2025, you will most likely have had one career change, and the cost-effectiveness will further decrease. But this is related to your unit's overall situation — the entire company's salary pool is shrinking.
到2025年,你多数有过一次事业变 动,性价比进一步下降了。但是这个 和你们单位的盘子有关,整个公司的 薪资盘都在收缩。
Looking ahead: 2026, Bingwu year. This year will be quite strenuous for you. There will be a lot of formalistic things at work, you won't be valued, and in addition, you are prone to interpersonal problems. Feeling-wise, the second half of the year will be better than the first. There will be more paperwork and reporting tasks, and they will involve digging up old issues and filling in gaps.
往后看: 2026年丙午 这一年你会蛮吃力的,你工作里会有 很多形式主义的事情,你不受重视, 此外容易有人际关系问题,体感上下 半年比上半年要好。文书,汇报类的 事情会比较多,而且涉及到翻旧账, 补窟窿这种事情。
2027, Dingwei year.
2027年丁未
Please receive.
请收
Client
Okay thank you.
好的谢谢
15:30
What you said is so accurate.
说的太准了
About work — am I still suited to stay in Shenzhen?
工作这块我还适合待在深圳么
I'm really tired from work, my leader wishes I could do everything and just makes empty promises.
确实干得很累,领导巴不得什么都是 我干还画饼
Master, can you help me see what colors are suitable for me next year, ones that will be good for me?
大师可以帮我看看明年适配的颜色么 比较旺我的
Zongyuan
Haha, you're still very smart, you can tell they're empty promises.
哈哈 你还是很聪明 知道是画饼
You are very clever, sensitive, and quick to react.
你非常机灵,灵敏,反应快
Client
[redacted][emoji][emoji][emoji] I think I'm quite stupid, born to toil.
[redacted][emoji][emoji][emoji]我觉得我挺笨的,劳碌命
Praise me more [emoji][emoji]
您夸我吧[emoji][emoji]
I used to be in Zhuhai, then I came to Shenzhen because of my ex-husband.
我之前一直在珠海,后面因为前夫来了深圳
And then everything went wrong.
然后就各种不顺
Up until now.
一直到现在
My income has also dropped a lot.
收入也是下滑了不少
Zongyuan
Mm.
Client
It's just that the busy people here are worked to death, and their income is not as good as the idle ones.
就是在这忙的忙死,收入还不如闲人
I'm not satisfied with that.
心理不干咯
Zongyuan
I understand you, but in this year chart, it's like this wherever you go.
懂你的,不过在这个流年里,上哪都是这样
Client
Will 2027 have something to do with my top leader?
27年会不会跟我的一把手有关系
Zongyuan
Major adjustment.
大调整
The whole system will change.
全盘都要变化
Client
The current top leader is okay, he's reaching retirement age in 2027.
目前一把手还行,27年到龄要退休了
Zongyuan
2027.
27年
Mm, right, from top to bottom.
嗯 对 从上到下的
Client
And my supervisor is also retiring, I don't know if he'll be rehired.
然后我的主管也要退休,不知道是否 返聘
Zongyuan
Mm, there are indeed quite a lot of changes.
嗯 确实变化蛮多的
Client
So I should just lay low and wait for opportunities, right? If it's good I'll stay, if not I'll leave.
所以我就是猫着等待机会咯,好就继 续用,不好就撤退咯
What you said about marriage is also very accurate.
婚姻也说我挺准的
Zongyuan
Mm 😁
嗯😁
Client
I do admire strong people.
确实幕强
And I have a controlling streak too.
也有控制欲
Zongyuan
You also want the right to speak.
又要话语权
Twisted up.
拧巴
😁
😁
Client
Yes 😂
是😂
Zongyuan
Take it slow with relationship matters.
感情的事儿缓缓吧
There are no good partners in these two years.
这两年没有好的对象
Client
To put it bluntly, I'm not feminine enough, don't know how to act coquettish.
说白了不够女人不够撒娇
Right, they're all rotten peach blossoms.
对,都是烂桃花
What about my health?
我的健康呢
Zongyuan
Health isn't covered in this reading. It's not a big problem, mostly emotional issues, pay attention to it yourself. Related issues, for example thyroid, breast, uterus.
健康就不放在这一卦里看了,问题不大,情绪问题为主,自己注意之类的 附带问题,比如甲状腺,乳腺,子宫
Client
What you said is so accurate.
您说的太准了
Oh my god.
我的天
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[emoji][emoji][emoji]
I have hypothyroidism, it was also diagnosed after I came to Shenzhen.
我有甲减也是来了深圳以后检查出来 的
Zongyuan
Mm hm 😀
嗯呢😀
Pay attention to it yourself. It's hard for hypothyroidism to get better, but it's controllable. Watch your diet and rest schedule.
自己注意 甲减好转有难度,但是可控 制,自己注意饮食作息哈
15:42
Client
The physical exam said there's a small fibroid in my uterus.
子宫问题体检说有个瘤很小
I get a checkup every six months.
隔半年复查一次
Okay, thank you Master.
好的,谢谢大师

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