She asked about marriage, children, and staying in Shanghai

Client

I feel stuck at this period of my life, I am 42, will be 43 soon, I have a partner but he mentioned that he doesn’t want to have a child in the future, I am also not sure if I really want to have a kid but I want to keep the doors open to this. I want to know if there is a healthy, happy baby in my future with a trustful, loving, caring husband - and should I continue with this partner? If we break up, will I meet with my future husband? Also will I be living in China- Shanghai for a while? Any job/city change?

Thank you

Should I pay now? Or later?

Zongyuan

where do you live now?

in SH?

16:08

Client

I live in Shanghai

Yes

Thank you

Zongyuan

I will give you the answer later [emoji]

Client

Sure

Thanks

16:57

Zongyuan

Ren Xu [redacted] (birth hour adjusted forward) Born in the Chou month, your Children Star is Mao Wood. Trends: 1 Timing of Marriage/Serious Commitment: Look for years featuring Wood or Earth elements. The primary period for marriage (or long-term cohabitation equivalent) will be around 2027. If this window is missed, the next significant opportunity won't arrive until 2031. It's unlikely your current relationship will lead to marriage, as you and your partner have mismatched future plans.

壬戌[redacted]（时辰前移） Born in the Chou (丑) month, your Children Star is the Mao Wood (卯木). Trends: 1 Timing of Marriage/Serious Commitment: Look for years featuring Wood or Earth elements. The primary period for marriage (or long-term cohabitation equivalent) will be around 2027. If this window is missed, the next significant opportunity won't arrive until 2031. It's unlikely your current relationship will lead to marriage, as you and your partner have mismatched future plans.

lack robust physical constitution. Immune system strength might be weaker than average, leading to frequent illness. The child's own element (signified by the Children Star) appears relatively weak in your chart. 4 Residence & Property: The Yang aspect (representing activity, light, warmth) is located in your Year Stem (Ren Xu) and Hour system (Xin Mao). This strongly suggests you will reside in Shanghai for long periods or permanently. You will own multiple properties: real estate in other locations (potentially overseas) as well as in Shanghai. While you might visit this overseas property occasionally, you won't live there long-term. Your ultimate roots and settlement will be firmly in China.

lack robust physical constitution. Immune system strength might be weaker than average, leading to frequent illness. The child's own element (signified by the Children Star) appears relatively weak in your chart. 4 Residence & Property: The Yang aspect (representing activity, light, warmth) is located in your Year Stem (壬戌) and Hour system (辛卯). This strongly suggests you will reside in Shanghai for long periods or permanently. You will own multiple properties: real estate in other locations (potentially overseas) as well as in Shanghai. While you might visit this overseas property occasionally, you won't live there long-term. Your ultimate roots and settlement will be firmly in China.

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17:06

Client

Thank you. If 2027 is my main time for marriage or long-term commitment, then how is it possible for me to have a child between 2026-2027? Also, it seems like “child energy” would be beneficial for me — is that correct?

Thank you, as I understand I will keep living my life as it is, it will show the way to me[emoji]-probably the person I will meet, will be the reason to break up with my partner.. and is that person will be the one more family oriented, the one to have a serious commitment in 2027?

Zongyuan

yes

Client

and more suitable for my soul I guess?

Zongyuan

you may have the same goals

Client

Is there a specific venue to meet with? I mean through friends, work etc?

Zongyuan

through work and you may pay attention to the group chat

Client

Wechat group chats:)

Zongyuan

yes

17:29

Client

One last comment: I actually really like my partner now :( as you say I should decide my priority and to

Thank you🙏 and that 2026 person, will he reach me? Or should I pay attention?

Zongyuan

you can pay attention in the first half year😀

If he shows, take the move

Client

I hope he makes the move!

17:49

Thank you very much😇🙏

If I have extra comments can I share tomorrow or other days?

Zongyuan

sure

You are welcome:)

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