Year chart

She asked about career and her many unfulfilling peaches

30 April 2025Jinan, Shandong Translated by AI

She asked about career trends and her long string of unfulfilling romantic prospects. I suggested putting relationships on hold for a few years.

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Zongyuan

You don't need to push yourself too hard. But looking at the full year, there's no major career highlight either — things stay relatively steady. For finances, spending is high in the first half of the year, and financial returns start to show in the second half, better than the first. Also, this year has a Chou-Wu clash, so there will likely be small-scale internal reforms at your unit (reforms that go in a direction you find comfortable). 2027, Ding Wei year This year has a Wei-Xu punishment, meaning more obstacles, and you may easily be sidelined, which is not good for career development. Also, there's a Chou-Wei clash, so this is a year of change for you — but that makes perfect sense, since you're about to enter the Chou luck pillar, so change is normal. This year is for finding your direction. You're likely to switch jobs around autumn, then move to a new company or new industry. This year will be fairly tedious and drain more of your money.

不用太过于辛苦。但是全年看，也没有事业高光，相对平稳。财运上，上半年开销大，下半年财运开始体现，好于上半年。此外本年有丑午穿，单位内部容易小范围改革（朝你舒服的方向改） 2027年丁未本年未戌刑，阻碍多，且容易被边缘化，不利于事业发展，此外丑未冲，也是你的变动年，但是也非常合理，因为马上要上丑运，变动是正常的，本年是找方向的年份，在秋季前后易跳槽，再进入新公司新行业。本年比较繁琐，耗财多。 2028年以及之后，进入新一波事业上升期，会远超目前成就。

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10:25

Client

Thank you, thank you. So overall 2025, 2026, 2028 are all okay, I might switch jobs in the second half of 2027, and things will develop quickly in 2028.

感谢感谢，所以其实整体252628也都还行，27年下半年可能跳槽，28会发展迅速

That's actually pretty close to what I expected. I also wanted to make a big career move around age 32, which lines up with my career plan.

其实跟我预期也差不多，我也是想32岁左右大跳一次和我的职业规划相符

10:26

Do you suggest I look into my love life? My relationships have never gone well — really not well. It feels like such a headache for me. But I get so, so much romantic attention.

你建议我看看我的感情嘛？我的感情一直不顺很不顺感觉是我很头疼的事情。但是桃花很多很多很多

I actually really want to look into it, but I want to hear your advice first.

我其实挺想看的但是想听你的建议

Zongyuan

I suggest you don't consider relationships at all for the next few years.

建议你近几年都不考虑感情

At least not until after 2027.

至少 2027 年之后

There's no one worth committing to in these years.

这几年没有可以托付的人

Client

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Hahahahaha. Then what do I do about all the romantic attention around me?

哈哈哈哈哈那我身边的桃花怎么处理呢

Zongyuan

Relationships are mutual. No one kicks a metal plate.

感情都是相互的，没人会踢铁板

If you leave a window open, people will naturally come to flirt with you.

你如果开了一扇窗，自然来人撩拨你

Client

Hmm, because work is busy, and I also need someone to take care of me, to provide emotional support, to keep me company — like going out to do things together.

嗯因为工作很忙因为也需要人照顾需要人提供情绪价值需要人陪伴比如出去玩啥的

Zongyuan

Hmm, then it's a matter of demand and supply.

嗯那就是需求和供给的问题了

You have that need, so romantic attention naturally comes.

你需要这个自然就有桃花

Client

3. Relationships: better not to get seriously involved. But if I need emotional support and company, what's a way to handle the romantic attention? Can I have the company without expecting a future together?

3、感情：最好别碰，如果我需要情绪价值需要陪伴，面对桃花，有什么应对办法嘛。可以满足陪伴但是不期待未来?

Zongyuan

2. Correct. 3. Then you have to be clear with people. For example, your BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny) makes you prone to getting into love triangles, so you can't go into possessiveness or control. Just satisfy each other's needs without talking about marriage.

2 对 3 那你就要和人说明白，比如你的八字容易进入三角恋，那么就不能谈占有欲，控制欲了，互相满足不谈结婚即可。

Client

Pfft

噗

Love triangles

三角恋

Hahahahahahahaha, that's the first time I've heard someone say that.

哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈我第一次听人说

Wuwuwuwuwuwu

呜呜呜呜呜呜呜

I thought I was stuck in some weird cycle

我还以为是我陷入了什么怪圈

Turns out it's in my BaZi

原来是八字带

Zongyuan

Hmm. Being pursued by married men, or you or your partner seeing two people at once — these are all carried in your chart.

嗯，被有妇之夫追求，你或者对象同时谈2 都是命里带

Client

救命啊，是真的，我去年被至少四五个有伴侣的追过。包括这个疯子，我最开始跟他接触的时候我并不知道，他一直在说哎呀不想结婚一个人挺好这种 [redacted]有时候晚上找他就失踪他会

Turns out it's in my BaZi

原来是八字带

Help, that's true. Last year I was pursued by at least four or five people who already had partners. Including this crazy guy — when I first started seeing him, I had no idea. He kept saying things like, 'Oh, I don't want to get married, being single is nice' and stuff like that. Sometimes when I tried to reach him at night he'd disappear, he'd say his parents were at his place. Later I sensed something was off, I confronted him, and only then did he admit he had a girlfriend and was in the process of breaking up.

救命啊，是真的，我去年被至少四五个有伴侣的追过。包括这个疯子，我最开始跟他接触的时候我并不知道，他一直在说哎呀不想结婚一个人挺好这种，有时候晚上找他就失踪他会说他爸妈在他家后来我觉得不对炸了他才承认有女朋友在分手ing

Zongyuan

Hmm, that's what the chart shows.

嗯这就是命

Client

Will it get better after 2027? Will I have a relatively good marriage? Oh my god

27年后会好一些嘛我会拥有相对好的婚姻嘛我的妈

Zongyuan: Hmm. Being pursued by married men, or you or your partner seeing two people at once — these are all carried in your chart.

猫猫道长_宗园🔥：嗯，被有妇之夫追求，你或者对象同时谈2 都是命里带

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