House and family

A hospital director asked about his wife’s strange behavior

19 May 2025Jinan, Shandong Translated by AI

A client asked why a hospital director’s wife seemed off, and if it would affect his position. The I Ching divination pointed to money issues, health problems, and relationship strain.

The screenshots were masked before they were posted. Names, avatars and birth details are covered in the originals; where a translated line reads [redacted], the source was covered too and nothing has been guessed.

Client

[redacted] I’m a bit hesitant to say. A hospital director suddenly called me, saying he keeps feeling something is off with his wife but can’t put it into words. His wife was born in 1970. They’re at an age where they leave each other be. They live in separate apartments, and she comes home occasionally. But lately he’s been feeling really weird about it and can’t say what’s going on?

[redacted]不太敢说。一个院长突然给我打电话，说总感觉她媳妇不对劲又说不出来。但是媳妇都70年的。也都是互不打扰的年纪。各住一套房，偶尔也回家看一看，但是最近老他老板总感觉怪怪的说不出来要干嘛？

Zongyuan

I didn’t understand the last sentence.

最后一句我没看懂

What does it mean?

是啥意思

So essentially he’s asking what’s wrong with his wife, right?

实际就是问他太太怎么了是么

Client

I typed wrong. Lately he keeps feeling his wife is acting strange but can’t say what she’s up to.

打错字了，他最近总感觉他老伴怪怪的又说不出来要干嘛

Yes.

对

Zongyuan

Hmm, let me take a look.

嗯我看下

Client

He’s asking what’s wrong with his wife, and whether it will affect him as the hospital director.

问他老伴怎么了，会不会影响到他这个院长

昨天15:40

Zongyuan

[redacted] 1. Both the original and changed hexagrams are [redacted]. First, there are financial issues—mostly investment losses or being scammed out of money, and unrest in the home. 2. The mutual hexagrams clash. The wife’s environment is changing, such as a work transfer, or thinking about moving to a different place (residence), swapping or moving house. 3. There are health problems. One is physical illness: issues with the heart and cerebral blood vessels. From the hexagram, it’s migraines and cervical blockages, plus internal gland blockages—problems with the breasts or uterus, which may require surgery. The other is non-physical: muddled thinking, prone to depression, anxiety, or hysteria. 4. The couple’s relationship is deteriorating. With Kan above, it mostly means affection is gone.

[redacted] 1 本卦变卦都[redacted]，首先是有资金问题，多数有投资失败，或者被人骗钱的问题，家宅不安。 2 互卦冲，太太的环境有所变化，比如工作调动，或者琢磨着换地方（居所），置换搬家。 3 身体有问题，一个是实病，心脑血管有问题，看卦是偏头疼和颈椎堵塞，再一个是腺体内部堵塞，有乳腺子宫的毛病，容易手术。二是虚病，脑子混沌，容易有抑郁，焦虑，癔症。 4 夫妻感情有所恶化，见坎在上多是感情不存。

昨天15:45

5. Several external omens (looking at both sides): a. Water leakage in the home. This has happened from the second half of 2023 until now, and there are mold spots in the house. b. The ancestral grave has had water leakage, flooding, or the area around the ancestral grave had heavy rain this year. c. Lights not working in the house, electrical appliances broken. This has been happening from 2024 until now, and needs repair. d. The qi openings clash. At least one of their two homes has a qi sha (door facing door, window facing window, door facing window).

5 几个侧面的外应（看两边）： a 家里漏水，事件从2023年下半年至今，发生过，家里还有霉点。 b 祖坟这几年有过漏水，浸泡，或者祖坟区域今年有过暴雨。 C 家里灯不亮，电器坏，时间在2024 年至今，需要修补。 D 气口冲，两人的家里至少有一家犯气煞（门对门，窗对窗，门对窗）

This hexagram—if you hadn’t asked, there wouldn’t be an issue. But since you asked, there will be financial loss, as husband and wife are one entity.

这个卦本来你不问是没事儿的，问了就要破财，夫妻一体了。

The timing is in the Ren Wu and Gui Wei months.

应期在壬午和癸未月

It will happen at the latest before the Start of Autumn this year.

最晚发生在今年立秋前

Water above Gen also involves giving back money—past matters are likely to come to light (accepting gifts, currying favor).

水在艮上，也涉及吐钱，容易有之前的事儿败露（收礼，搞关系）

昨天 15:54

Client

Both a and b are true. Cat Daoist is amazing 👍[emoji]

ab都有，这个猫道长牛👍[emoji]

Zongyuan

c and d are also true.

cd也有

Client

Let me ask about c and d.

CD 我在问一下

Zongyuan

If you look carefully, you will definitely find them.

细找就必然可以看到

To make things better, the external omens must be dealt with.

要想好些，外应就必须处理

Client

Yes, there are.

有

Zongyuan

Hmm.

嗯

Client

Because he’s busy with work, he doesn’t have time to find someone to fix things. The house was allocated by the hospital—door facing window, bedroom facing bathroom door, perfectly aligned.

因为工作繁忙，也没时间找人修理，因为是医院分的房子是门对窗，卧室对厕所门，分毫不差的对着

Since his wife has someone outside, he just ignores it by default. Their relationship gets worse every day, and they stay married only for their son’s position and career.

因为他媳妇外面有人，也就默认不理会了，夫妻感情每天都在恶化，也是为了儿子的职位以及职位，保持不离婚

Zongyuan

Hmm.

嗯

Client

That’s what he’s most afraid of.

最最怕这个事

昨天18:11

Zongyuan [redacted] also involves giving back money, past matters likely to come to light (accepting gifts, currying favor)

猫猫道长_宗园🔥 [redacted] 也涉及吐钱,容易有之前的事儿败露(收礼,搞关系)

Zongyuan

Then that’s the most likely thing to happen.

那就是最最容易有这个事儿

Client

Also, he said he suspects his wife is bringing men home.

还有他说怀疑老婆往家里领人了

Zongyuan

Water governs secret affairs. When it turns over like clouds and rain, it will definitely be exposed 😀

水主阴私，翻天为云雨，必暴露😀

No need to suspect—that’s exactly what’s happening.

这不用怀疑，就是这样

The Gui Wei month is the timing, when it will hit from all sides. Since it’s the Xin Si month now, we should hurry [redacted]

癸未月是应期，会全方位打击，趁着现在是辛巳，应该抓紧[redacted]

Client

He has several houses and stays in whichever he feels like. What to do about that?

好几处房子，想起哪个住哪个？这个怎么弄。

Zongyuan

Stay in the westernmost room.

住最西的屋

Check the map.

看看地图

Client

He’s just afraid his wife will report him. After so many years of marriage, they know each other too well.

他就害怕他媳妇举报他，夫妻这么多年太了解对方了。

The westernmost house 🏠

最西面的房子🏠

Zongyuan

You see—if you don’t want others to know, don’t do it [emoji]

你看看，若要人不知，除非己莫为[emoji]

昨天16:17

Client

[redacted]. He’s just afraid his wife will report him. After so many years of marriage, they know each other too well.

[redacted]. 他就害怕他媳妇举报他，夫妻这么多年太了解对方了。

Zongyuan

If you’ve done nothing wrong, what’s there to be afraid of? Right? If you did it, don’t be afraid of being reported.

没事儿怕啥举报，对不对。干了就别怕举报

Client

He’s only been director for two years, and was just named a national model worker a couple days ago. He’s even more afraid his wife is taking bribes behind his back. He can explain his own affairs, and they’re not much anyway.

刚当院长两年又被评为全国劳模前两天。更怕他媳妇背着他收受贿赂。他自己可以解释得通，也都不多。

Zongyuan

From what I see, that’s not the case [emoji]

我看可不是[emoji]

The original and changed hexagrams are the same sort—cut from the same cloth.

这个本变都是一个货色，一条裤子

None of these houses are clean.

这个房子都不干净

Either they were bought with bribe money, or they were half-given by developers.

要么是贿赂款买的房子，要么是开发商半送的房子

Client

Let me dig deeper and ask him [emoji]