He asked about a relationship he was crying over
He cried over a girl he was seeing. I looked at her BaZi and said the relationship would end by the Gui Wei month.
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Client
But I cried all day yesterday too [emoji]
但是昨天也都哭了[emoji]
Zongyuan
Got it. I'll take a look in a bit.
了解了，我一会看下
11:13
Client
This is her BaZi. She actually wants to get married.
这是她的八字，她想结婚其实
Do you need my BaZi too [emoji]
还需要我的八字不[emoji]
Zongyuan
I don't need yours.
不用你的了
Client
Okay, thank you so much Zongyuan.
嗯呢，感恩师父
Zongyuan
[redacted] ⏎ In her BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny), the spouse star is wu fire. But the wood element is supported by multiple people, and the spouse star appears both internally and externally. In this situation, when she dates, she weighs options among multiple people. This year is Yi Si year; the si fire is external, not hers, so her feelings for you are not that genuine. Actually, you don't like her that much either — it's not like you have to be with this person specifically. ⏎ Also, her month pillar is Gui Si. The spouse star also combines with gui water, which is another sign that you will have multiple romantic options this year. ⏎ Her BaZi is sensitive to wei earth. When wei earth arrives, it takes away the si and wu in the earthly branches, which is the timing for a breakup. The two of you will basically end by the Gui Wei month, and you'll have to look for new partners again. She will also have new targets. In terms of thr
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八字的夫妻星是午火，但是木被多个人所生，夫妻星又是内外都有，在这样的情况下，她找对象也是多个人之间权衡，今年是乙巳年，巳火在外，不是她的，因此对你的感情还是不够真切，实际上你对她也没有这么喜欢，并不是非要这个人不可。
此外她的八字是癸巳月柱，夫妻星还合癸水，也是反向证明你在今年会有多个对象。
她的八字怕未土，未土来了则收走地支巳午，也是分手应期，你俩基本到了癸未月就结束了，你还要重新再看新的对象了。她也会有心目标，在三
11:36
end by the Gui Wei month, and you'll have to look for ⏎ new partners again. She will also have new targets. In terms of ⏎ values and family background, you are not a very good match.
了癸未月就结束了，你还要重新再看
新的对象了。她也会心目标，在三
观上，家庭上并不算很契合。
Save that.
收哈
11:36
Client
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11:40
Zongyuan, that's so accurate
师父太准了吧
Zongyuan
Then what's there to cry about 😀
这还有啥落泪的呢😀
Client
Yeah, I also don't feel that strong ⏎ liking from her
对的我也感觉不到她对我那种强烈的
喜欢
Zongyuan
Then just end it.
就拉倒呗
Client
I also feel like we have too many differences ⏎ in our views
我也是觉得她有太多和我观念不一样
的地方
Zongyuan
Marriage needs a sense of fatedness to be a right match, right?
进入婚姻肯定是要一种命定感，才是
正缘嘛
Yeah, you two are not cut from the same cloth.
嗯，你俩不是一路人
Client
I'm very punctual, but she's terribly procrastinating
我很守时，但是她拖延要命
Zongyuan
You're just a bit caught up in your own feelings. Maybe you think since you put in effort, the other person has to like you back, but that's not really how it works 😀 [emoji]
只是你有点自我感动，可能是付出了一定要对方喜欢你，实际也不是这么回事儿😀[emoji]
11:42
Client
I really don't feel like I have to be with her either
我确实也不是非她不可的那种想法
This year really...
今年确实
Zongyuan
It's not just that. She's being pressured hard by her family to get married, so she could just marry anyone, but she values material things. You care more about spiritual compatibility.
不止这个，她被家里催的厉害，可以随意找个人结婚，但是看重物质，你比较重精神领域契合。
You want different things.
追求不同
Client
Exactly exactly
对对
That's exactly what she told me
她就是那么和我说的
She just wants to find someone stable
她就想找个稳定的
Zongyuan
Not getting married is a good thing. A marriage with that kind of dynamic would be so miserable, right?
不结婚是好事，这样的组合结婚了那多遭罪啊是不是
Client
She doesn't care about feelings anymore
她不在乎感情了
She said
说是
[emoji]
[emoji]
She's very pessimistic
她很悲观
I'm more optimistic than her
我倒是比她乐观点
Zongyuan
Yeah, she's been hurt by people before, and she's hurt people too, so she doesn't feel much emotionally. Her family of origin wasn't good either — her parents didn't get along, so they didn't set a good example for her.
嗯，她也被渣，也渣人，就没有啥感情触动，原生家庭也不好，父母关系不合，没有给她榜样的力量。
Also, she didn't have much growing up, she was poor, so she wants money now — she knows what it's like to be poor.
再个是小时候条件一般，穷过，所以要有钱，吃过穷亏
Client
Yeah, she said she would definitely never marry someone like her dad
对的她说她肯定不会找她爸那样的人结婚
Zongyuan, you're amazing
师父太神了
Zongyuan
See? Not sad anymore, right? [emoji]
这么一说，不难过了吧[emoji]
Client
There really are other people who like me this year
今年确实还有别人喜欢我
Zongyuan
Mm-hmm.
嗯
Client
[emoji]
[emoji]
Zongyuan
The first half of the year is still so-so. In the second half, you'll be more likely to feel genuinely interested in someone. This year you've walked into a village of peach blossoms — small romantic encounters every three steps, bigger ones every five steps.
上半年还一般，下半年的你容易相对
动心点，今年你是入了桃花村了， 三
步小桃花，五步大桃花。
Peach blossoms are everywhere, enough to dazzle the eye [emoji]
桃花渐欲迷人眼[emoji]
11:46
Client
The other day I hit someone with my bike, and that person seemed kind of interesting [emoji]
那天骑车撞了个人，那个人感觉还有
意思[emoji]
Zongyuan
[emoji]
[emoji]
Client
Ugh, but she's too old
服了，但是她太大了
Thinking about it
这么一想
I'm kind of a player too
我也很渣啊
Can things settle down this year [emoji]
那今年能定下来吗[emoji]
It's tiring like this
很累的这样
Zongyuan
[emoji] From your own perspective, you just have a lot of romantic options. From the other person's perspective, you're a player.
[emoji]站在各自的视角，是自己桃花多，
站在对面的视角，是渣。
11:47
Things can gradually settle down in the Xu month.
戌月可以逐渐定下来
Not before then.
这之前还不能
Client
Zongyuan, you're amazing
师父太神了
Actually I can feel that kind of strong 'shang guan' personality in her
其实我能感觉出她那种伤官很重的性格
Zongyuan
Yeah, she's also very torn — she loves freedom but feels trapped. That's a pretty painful way to live.
嗯，她也比较纠结，爱自由，又被禁锢，这是比较痛苦的人生。
Client
Yeah
对的
That's so accurate
太神了
She likes rock music
她喜欢摇滚
Freedom
自由
12:00
Rebellion
叛逆
Sigh
哎
Zongyuan, you're amazing
师父太神了
It's like you can see through everything ⏎ [emoji]
通神一般
[emoji]