She asked about a relationship her family did not approve of
A client asked about a relationship her family opposed. I read her BaZi and shared notes on her partner profile and timing.
The screenshots were masked before they were posted. Names, avatars and birth details are covered in the originals; where a translated line reads [redacted], the source was covered too and nothing has been guessed.
Client
Zongyuan, I would like a divination reading.
猫猫道长，我想看一卦
I met a man last June [redacted] [redacted] His job is not as good as mine, not stable. He has had some rough life experiences, has a quick temper, but treats me very well, is very thoughtful. We have a certain默契, even some similarities. Recently he started a business with someone else, in logistics. I mentioned him to my family but they don't approve. He has been [redacted] I definitely have feelings for him too, so we've been going back and forth and I don't dare tell my family. [redacted]
我去年6月遇见一个男的[redacted]
[redacted] 工作没有我好，不稳
定，有过一段走社会经历，脾气挺冲，
但对我挺好的，很体贴，我们也有一
定默契，甚至有些相似的点。然后他
最近自己和别人在创业，搞物流一块
的。我和我家里人提过但不同意，他
一直[redacted] 对他肯定也是有好感
的，所以一直在纠缠也不敢告诉家里
人。[redacted]
昨天 23:37
Please take a look and reply when you can, Zongyuan.
劳烦猫猫道长看了回复我
Zongyuan
Ding Chou [redacted] In your BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny), the spouse star is wu fire. Your favorable element is metal, so for marriage it is good when both metal and fire arrive. This year is Yi Si year. Yi wood emerges from wei earth, so with your current partner, in the second half of this year there is a risk of a love triangle — meaning one of you will meet someone new. In 2026, Bing Wu year, chou and wu clash. That year [redacted]
丁丑[redacted]
八字的夫妻星是午火，喜的字是金，
因此结婚喜金火都到。今年是乙巳年，
乙木从未土中出来，所以你和现在这
个对象，到了下半年容易犯三角恋，
也就是你俩其中一个又去认识新人了，
到了2026年丙午年，丑午穿，这一年
11:47
Spouse profile: Relatively quick-tempered, but pure and kind-hearted. Has a certain degree of controlling nature, but you like that — you prefer a man who can take charge. Work industry mainly in education, finance, internet, publicity. Age similar to yours or slightly older. Owns a wedding apartment. Family background is good; family runs a manufacturing business or their own company. Someone in the family has diabetes or unstable blood sugar — mainly parents and grandparents, not distant relatives. The family has heirloom jewelry. Has had bone injuries, especially to the feet — habitual sprains or fractures.
配偶画像：
脾气相对急躁，但是纯真善良。有一定的控制欲，但是你也比较喜欢，喜欢可以主事的男人。工作行业主要在教育，金融，互联望，宣传，年纪和你相仿或者比你大一些，自己有婚房。
家庭条件不错，家里有做实业的或者自己开公司的，家里有糖尿病或血糖不稳定的人，主要参考父母和祖父母，旁系不算。家里有祖传的珠宝，骨骼有过受伤，尤其是脚部，有过习惯性扭伤或者骨折。
Please take this.
请收
12:06
Client
This profile sounds so much like him. He has a nominal position at a state-owned enterprise, but also works part-time in finance. Except for being older than me and not having a wedding apartment, everything else basically matches.
这个画像和他好像，他在国企挂职，但是也兼职金融行业。除了年纪比我大，没有婚房，其他基本一致
12:24
The love triangle situation — it happened in the first half of this year. We broke up, then he came back to me. Both of us had issues. My family set me up on a blind date, and he met another woman. I thought their relationship was不正常, and he thought my relationship with the blind date was不正常 [emoji]
三角恋的情况，今年上半年有。分手过，然后他又来找我了，我们两个都有问题。就是我家里人给我相亲，然后他也认识一个女的，我觉得他们关系不正常，他觉得我和相亲对象不正常[emoji]
Zongyuan
Mm, that does match what the chart shows [emoji]
嗯 确实是有[emoji]
Client
Also Zongyuan, what exactly does 'can take charge' mean?
还有猫猫道长，可以主事具体是什么意思
Zongyuan
The one who makes decisions.
拿主意的人
Not someone who does everything you say.
不是完全听你的
13:09
Client
Oh oh, that's right. Small things can go my way, but for big things I actually want to listen to the other person. But if their ability and way of handling things exceeds what I can do, I really admire that — it's like I'm drawn to strong people [emoji]
哦哦，是这样的，小事可以听我的，
大事我其实是希望听对方的。但是处
理事情的能力和方式要超过我的认知，
我就会很欣赏，就是有点慕强的意思[emoji]
That's so accurate.
太准了
Zongyuan
Mm [emoji]
嗯[emoji]
Client
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[image]
Should I be honest and tell my parents?
我是不是应该坦诚告诉家长
If I make it public, I won't have to go on blind dates anymore [emoji]
如果我公开了，就不会相亲了啊[emoji]
About the wedding apartment — from what he says, his dad means to wait until we're serious and my parents agree before buying.
婚房的问题，听他说他爸的意思是要
等我和他确定了，我父母同意了再买
Zongyuan
You can tell them in the second half of the year.
你下半年了可以说
Client
[redacted]
[redacted]
Okay, I was actually thinking of waiting until after my birthday to tell them [emoji]
好的，我刚好也是想等我过了生日和
他们说[emoji]
Because I'll be a year older [emoji] They'll start rushing me again.
因为又大一岁了[emoji]他们又要催了。
Oh my god, that's so accurate, Zongyuan
天哪，太准了，猫猫道长
Zongyuan
[emoji][emoji]
[emoji][emoji]
Client
So I should just keep seeing him for now?
所以我现在就还是和他谈着
Zongyuan
Mm, yes.
嗯是