She was stuck in a relationship she knew was wrong
She asked about her marriage chart, then came back stuck in a relationship she knew was wrong. I told her it would end around November.
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Client
Okay, thank you. Let's look at marriage first 😊
好的，谢谢，先看婚姻吧😊
Zongyuan
So that's 12:30 AM on the 24th, right?
那是到了24号凌晨0:30了是么
Client
No, it's the early morning of the 23rd. Sorry, I didn't make that clear.
不是，是23号的凌晨，不好意思，我没说明白
Zongyuan
12:30 AM on the 23rd.
23的早上0:30
Got it. I'll get back to you later when I have time.
好滴 晚点空了我回复你
Client
Yes.
是的
Zongyuan
Yihai [redacted] ⏎ This BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny) has weak Earth. The whole chart relies on Shen Metal. Because the Bi Jian and Jie Cai are accompanied by Yin, your relationships have always been difficult. You often end up in triangular situations — this can show up in different ways, like your partner cheating, or the person you see already being in a relationship. Things like this happen a lot. In this chart, Shen Metal is the spouse star. You will marry in a year when Metal, Fire, and Earth all arrive. You will meet the right person [redacted], and marriage will be between 2027 and 2028. You will get a home in the same year, and a child will come 1-2 years after that.
乙亥[redacted]
这个八字土薄，全局用申金。由于比劫带印，所以你婚姻总是不顺。且经常陷入三角恋，这个三角恋有多种体现，比如你对象劈腿，或者你找的对象有感情，这一类事情很多。八字以申金为夫妻星，见金到火到土到的流年结婚。认识正缘[redacted]，结婚在2027-2028年之间，同年有婚房落定，孩子在之后1-2年到。
2024年4月27日 下午16:27
Client
Zongyuan, sorry to bother you. Something happened and I need your help. I don't know when you'll be free.
道长，打扰您了，遇到事情了需要您帮忙看一下，不知道什么时候方便
18:38
Zongyuan
What is it exactly?
具体什么事儿
Client
It's a relationship problem. I got into a bad relationship. His family found out last week, and now I'm anxious and worried. I don't know what to do. I don't even know how to put it into words.
感情问题，我陷入了一段不好的感情中，上周他家人发现了，现在有点焦虑和担心，不知道怎么办，就是我不知道怎么表述
You read my chart before and said I'm prone to things like this. It really happened, I couldn't avoid it.
之前您给我看过，我的八字就是容易有这样的事，确实真的没逃开
I'm suffering inside. Other people might not understand, but I don't want this either. I'm not making excuses. It just feels like there's no way out.
我内心也煎熬，虽然说的可能别人不理解，但是我也不想这样，是真的，不是狡辩的，就是感觉没办法
Zongyuan
The person you're seeing is married, right?
你这次谈的人有家庭是吧
Client
I feel pretty hopeless too. There's no one I can talk to.
也挺绝望的，也没有人可以说
Yes.
是的
Zongyuan
What is his attitude right now?
现阶段对方是什么态度
Client
I feel like he has real feelings for me, but we both agreed, weighing the pros and cons, that we wouldn't break up his family.
我感觉他对我有真心，但是我们都默认过，权衡利弊的，不拆家
The last time we talked he said he would handle it. I can't ask him again. I don't know what's going on with them.
最后一次联系他说他解决，我也没法再去问，不知道他们什么情况
Zongyuan
This is a wrong relationship this year. There's no future. It will basically end around November. There will be other relationships after that.
今年是个错误的感情，没有啥后续，基本到了11月左右，就会结束了，之后还有其他感情。
Client
What I'm worried about now is, will this turn into something big? I know it's wrong.
我现在担心的是，这个会不会变成大事儿，错了是错了
18:46
Even if it ends, I can accept that.
哪怕结束我也接受
Zongyuan
It won't turn into something big.
没有大事儿
Client
Because I already thought about ending it before.
因为之前就想过结束
Zongyuan
Also, it doesn't look like you've taken a lot of money. There's no issue of repayment.
而且看着你也没有拿很多钱，不涉及返还
They won't sue you either.
他们也不会起诉你
Client
Zongyuan, there's no money dispute between us.
道长，我们之前没有钱的纠纷
18:48
We split costs about half and half. He might have paid a little more, but not much.
花费基本对半，他可能多点也没有太多
I'm just scared his family will make a big scene. That's why I'm anxious.
我怕他家人闹大，不好，就有点焦虑
Zongyuan
There will be no trouble.
没有是非
Don't worry.
放心吧
Client
Okay. I'm sorry to trouble you with something like this. I just didn't know what to do.
好的，这种不好的事儿也给你添麻烦了，就是不知道怎么办了
Can I avoid these kinds of relationships in the future?
您说我这种感情，能不能规避一下啊
Zongyuan
[emoji] Peach blossom calamities have to be passed one by one.
[emoji]桃花劫还是要一关关过
Wear a small silver monkey. It will help.
你给自己佩戴个银色小猴子吧，会好些
Client
I feel so powerless. I'm not a saint, but I'm a relatively kind and honest person. I'm even speechless at myself for this.
真的很无力，平时不是说大好人也是相对善良老实的人，就这个事我都很无语
Other people would never think something like this could happen to me. There's just no way out [emoji].
别人眼里，这种事儿都不会发生在我身上的那种，就是没办法[emoji]
Zongyuan
Mm [emoji][emoji]
嗯[emoji][emoji]