She asked whether to renovate or sell, and chose to sell
The layout was off in ways renovation could soften but not reverse. She stopped the renovation and put the flat on the market.
The screenshots were masked before they were posted. Names, avatars and birth details are covered in the originals; where a translated line reads [redacted], the source was covered too and nothing has been guessed.
Client
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The door of my flat faces a fire escape.
我家门口对的是安全通道
Zongyuan
Your place is quite cluttered.
你这个屋子挺乱啊
Do you have photos of the current actual layout?
目前的实际布局图片有吗
Client
My mother and my husband both like to keep things. Only a renovation would force him to deal with the stuff [emoji]
我妈和我老公爱收拾东西在家，只有装修才能逼他处理东西[emoji]
Zongyuan
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Client
Would it be convenient to talk on the phone?
是否方便和您电话沟通
Zongyuan
Stand here, facing the direction of the arrow, then open your compass.
你站在这 按照箭头指示站立 然后打开指南针
Send me a screenshot.
截图一张发我
Client
Okay.
好
Zongyuan
Let me look at it tonight, then I'll call you on WeChat.
等我晚上看完 我和你微信电话沟通
Client
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昨天 17:48
Zongyuan
Good.
好的
Client
The compass reading from that spot.
站在这个位置的指南针图
Zongyuan
Quite straight.
挺正的
Tonight I'll write it up first and send it to you, then we'll talk on the phone.
晚上我先写完发你 我俩打电话
Client
The southwest corner is missing, as it happens.
正好缺西南角
🌹🌹🌹
🌹🌹🌹
Tonight you'll write it up first and send it, then we'll talk on the phone.
晚上我先写完发你 我俩打电话
Zongyuan
Layout problems first.
1. The flat is [redacted], the kitchen [redacted], which makes it [redacted] reversed. From this chart, the woman holds the upper hand in the household — she is the one running things. The man's career is not strong, or his health is not good.
2. Everyone in the household should watch for several categories of illness: first, cardiovascular and cerebrovascular; second, kidney and urinary (for women, gynecological; for men, prostate); third, blood sugar and cholesterol; fourth, migraines; fifth, blockages of the vessels; sixth, lower back and legs. The elders tend to show these first, and they tend to pass down.
先说户型问题
1 房子是[redacted]的，厨房[redacted]，属[redacted]颠倒过。从这个盘内看，女性话语权占上风，主要女人管事，男人事业不强旺或者身体不够好。
2 家里人都需要注意几类疾病，一是心脑血管疾病，二是肾脏和泌尿系统疾病（女看妇科，男看前列腺），三是血糖和胆固醇，四是偏头疼，五是梗塞类疾病，六是腰腿部位疾病。这些病症长辈容易先有，而后容易遗传。
昨天 19:07
3. Not enough backing behind the house — the family's career has little momentum later on.
The elders once had some say (in the system, or in business, but they are no longer in position now).
4. Wealth does not gather; money drains in many ways, and investment mistakes are easy — around the last three years or so. (Or money lent to others that does not come back.)
5. I would not recommend living in a house like this. Even renovation and layout changes can ease it, but they cannot fully reverse it.
Even after adjusting it, you should consider replacing it later. This house will be hard work for old age.
6. Strong woman, weak man — the man's development will be limited, and the woman is prone to a bad temper.
Remedies below:
1. [redacted]
3 靠山不足，家里的事业后劲不足。
长辈曾经有一定的话语权（比如体制内的或者做生意，但是目前已经不在位）
4 财不能聚，耗财问题多，此外容易有投资失误的事情，在近三年前后发生。（或者借钱给他人不还）
5 这类房屋我不建议居住，即使装修和布局可以缓解，但是不能完全逆转。
建议即使调理后，你也要考虑之后置换，这个房子养老是很吃力的。
6 女强男弱，男人的发展会被局限，此外女性容易脾气不好。
以下为化解：
1 [redacted]
Please take a look.
请收
You can give me feedback on the first part first, and we'll talk shortly.
你可以先反馈第一部分，一会我们通话
Client
The first part is points 1 to 6, right?
第一部分就是1-6点是吗
Zongyuan
Yes.
是
Client
First — in my parents' marriage my mother was the strong one and my father the weak one, and he has already passed away, [redacted]
第一，我爸妈他们确实是我妈强势我爸弱已经去世，[redacted]
昨天 19:29
Second — my father had prostate trouble, my husband and my mother both have blood sugar and cholesterol issues, I have a back problem, and my mother has lower back and leg pain.
第二，我爸有前列腺，我老公我妈都有血糖和胆固醇，我有腰问题，我妈有腰腿痛
昨天 19:35
Zongyuan
All of them.
全占了
Mm. His weakness showed up in his body.
嗯 他的弱体现在身体上了
Client
Apart from that, my neck and lumbar spine are a big problem.
我除了颈椎和腰椎问题大
Third — neither my husband nor I have any backing.
第三，我和我老公都没有靠山
Zongyuan
Did either side of your parents' families once have someone in the system, or doing reasonably well in business, who later fell away?
你们双边父母有没有曾经体制内或者生意做的还可以的，后来落下来了。
Client
Fourth — in all the years we've been married we've never gathered wealth.
第四，结婚这些年没聚过财
Zongyuan
Ha [emoji]
哈哈[emoji]
Client
My family is in business. My parents paid for this flat for me.
我家是做生意的，这套房子是我父母出钱买给我的
My family's business has had big rises and big falls.
我家做生意是大起大落
Zongyuan
Mm, that's what I meant by once having backing, then losing it — and then the two of you moved into this house.
嗯，这就是我说的曾有靠山，后落败，然后你俩就住这个屋子。
After you moved in, the backing fell through.
住进之后靠山就落空了
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昨天 19:45
I understand. Can I ask a bit more over the phone?
知道，我是否能电话再咨询一下
昨天 20:01
Zongyuan
Sure, call me.
可以 你打过来吧
Client
Call duration 08:09
通话时长 08:09
昨天 20:10
Zongyuan, thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏
猫猫，太感谢🙏🙏🙏
昨天 20:14
Zongyuan
🌹🌹 Get moving on it early.
🌹🌹早日操作起来
Better and better 🤗
越来越好🤗
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Client
Thank you so much.
太感谢您了
昨天 20:18
I feel like I could fly [emoji][emoji][emoji]
我都想飞起来[emoji][emoji][emoji]
Asking in time solved my big problem.
及时问问题，解决我的大问题
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Zongyuan
Haha.
哈哈哈
昨天 20:25
Yes. An important decision.
是的 重要抉择
Client
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昨天 20:31
Zongyuan, when we move later, can these five stay?
猫猫，请问以后搬家时，这5个是否能留
And a turtle we've kept for over fifteen years 🐢 — can it stay?
还有一只养了15年以上的乌龟🐢能留不
Zongyuan
Those five, don't keep them. The turtle can come with you.
这5个就不要留了，乌龟可以一块儿带走。
昨天 21:46
Client
Then when choosing an agent and salesperson to sell the flat, are there any requirements?
然后挑卖房中介和销售人员时有没有要求
昨天 21:56
Zongyuan
Choose people with metal and fire attributes.
选择带金火属性的人
For example, surnames or characters with the fire radical, the metal radical, the knife radical, the roof radical.
比如朱 火字旁 金字旁 利刀旁 宝盖头这些
Client
Any agency is fine, right?
哪个中介都可以是吧
Zongyuan
Yes.
可以的
昨天 22:17
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