She asked about her family and her own hard stretch
A client going through a difficult period asked about her family’s health, finances, and daughter. I told her what to watch for through the year.
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Client
I don’t know my exact birth time. My parents said it was roughly 4 to 6 in the morning.
生，具体时刻父母记不得了，说是大概
4-6点。
Zongyuan
The foundation of the whole chart is xu earth. The overall temperature [redacted] means unrest in the home. That is what the current yi wood luck pillar brings. Last November was a peak. There will still be turbulence in the first half of this year, mainly once in February–March and once in June–July on the solar calendar. Things start to improve from autumn onwards.
The turbulence will affect several areas:
1. Elder family members may have health issues. Pay attention to cardiovascular and cerebrovascular problems, and cysts. If there is a history of illness, monitor it closely.
2. Tension with family members, including intimate relationships, relationships with parents, and parent-child relationships, will all be challenging.
3. Financial loss. In the four months of the first half mentioned above, there will be varying degrees of extra spending. Plan your liquid funds carefully. Wealth luck improves after the Start of Autumn, and things will settle again.
4. Your child’s academic performance may slip in the first half, and they may have interpersonal problems at school. This also improves in the second half.
5. Your own health is not good. You have anxiety and insomnia, and bone issues—you are prone to soreness in the joints, lower back, and neck.
When a person is in a low period, many things feel out of reach. So what you can do is lay low and wait, and plan your disposable assets to guard against risk. The second half of the year will be relatively smoother.
A few suggestions:
全局的根基是戌土，全局温度[redacted]就是家内不安，目前走乙木运气就是这样，去年11月就是一次高峰，今年的上半年还会有震荡感，主要集中在阳历2-3月一次，以及6-7月一次，从秋季开始好转。
震荡会带来多方面影响：
1 长辈身体有疾病，建议关注心脑血管以及囊肿类问题，有疾病历史的自己多关注。
2 六亲关系不合，包括亲密关系，与父母关系，子女关系，都会有挑战。
3 破财，上面提到的上半年的四个月里多有有不一样程度的耗财，建议自己规划好流动资金，立秋之后财运好转，重新归拢。
4 子女学业上半年会有退步，且学校里容易有人际关系问题，也是下半年好转。
5 你身体不好，有焦虑症和失眠，骨骼上的问题，容易关节腰椎颈椎酸痛。
人在背运上很多事情是无力的，所以能做的就是蛰伏和等待，以及对于可支配财产做一定规划，抵御风险。下半年相对顺利。
几个建议:
09:26
7. Be sure to visit your ancestors’ graves this Qingming Festival. It will help your luck.
7 本年清明务必祭祖，会对运势有帮扶作用。
Please take this in.
请收
09:35
Client
Zongyuan, 1. My mother-in-law had a cerebral hemorrhage. It was found at the end of last year. We went to the hospital, and they said surgery is not possible for now. We have to wait for the blood to be absorbed on its own, then check again to decide whether surgery is needed. That corresponds to point 3, the extra spending in the four months of the first half. I am mentally prepared for that.
2. My daughter had a falling out with her father this Monday and moved out. She is 12 years old, with a very bad temper. I came to you about her before.
4. My daughter is in first year of middle school. She is caught up in and troubled by school relationships. Her grades have always been in the lower middle. That is something I have felt helpless about for a long time.
5. My own health is exactly as you said.
师傅，1.我婆婆脑出血，去年年底发现的，去医院看了，说暂时不能手术，要等血液自行吸收后，再检查决定是否手术，那么就对应了第3点上半年4个月内有耗财，这部分我有心理准备；
2.女儿这周一和爸爸闹翻了，搬出去住了，12岁的孩子，脾气十分大，之前也找您看过她；
4.女儿今年初一，热衷且受困于学校关系，学习一直是中下，也是我一直很无奈的事情；
5.我身体就是这个情况。
My husband also just had thyroid surgery a month ago. My younger child has asthma. I have to take care of both home and work. Lately I sit down and just cry, I can’t control it at all.
老公也刚刚甲状腺手术一个月。老二哮喘，家里和工作都要兼顾，我最近坐下来就流眼泪，完全控制不住。
09:36
Zongyuan
You are showing symptoms of anxiety and depression.
你属于焦虑和抑郁的症状了
Client
For the ancestor visit—my hometown is in Henan, I work in Shanghai. I have two children right now and no one to help. Going back to Henan is quite difficult.
祭祖，我老家在河南，我在上海工作，目前两个孩子，没人帮扶，回河南的话还挺难的
Is there another way to do the ancestor offering, or do I have to go back myself to visit the graves in person?
祭祖是否有其他方式，还是一定要自己回去亲子祭祖
Both my grandparents have passed away. I left home when I was young, so I haven’t done well with this kind of thing.
我爷爷奶奶都不在了。我自小离家，这方面做的不好
It’s all so hard. Ever since I started coming to you for readings, I’ve slowly made peace with my daughter and tried my best to take care of her emotions.
But she is actually suffering inside. Her inner world is not rich, she has no friends. I always want to stay with her so she doesn’t feel lonely. But according to the reading, maybe that can’t be changed. She has a very fiery temper. This time it was because her father told her to go to bed earlier, [redacted]
都挺难熬的啊。我 自从找您看开始，就
慢慢对女儿和解了，尽力照顾她的情绪。
但是她其实内心很苦的，精神世界不丰
富，没有朋友，我总想陪着她，不让她
孤单，但是按照命理，可能改变不了，
她脾气很火爆，这次是因为爸爸管她早
点睡觉，[redacted]
Zongyuan
You have already changed a lot.
你已经改变了不少
Client
Mm, yes, I’ve changed a lot.
嗯，是的，改变了很多
Zongyuan
Right. Let her become independent earlier, that is the best thing.
对 让她早点独立 就最好
Keep a certain distance. Distance makes the heart grow fonder.
保持一定距离，距离产生美，
Then your relationship will improve.
你们关系就好转
Client
Will her life be safe and smooth? Will she live well? That is what I worry about most, and one of the reasons I can’t bear to let go.
她的一生会平安顺遂吗？过得好吗？这
是我最担心的，也是不舍得放手的原因
之一
I understand.
懂了
10:36
I feel like you are both a teacher and a friend to me. I have a kind heart, and sometimes I don’t quite understand things. I hope you don’t mind.
和您亦师亦友，我心存善良，有时候不
太懂，希望师傅不要见怪
Zongyuan
Try acupuncture and Chinese medicine to regulate your body. Your mood will improve, and your ability to handle problems will also get better.
去针灸和中药调理下，情绪会好转，处
理问题能力也会提升
I understand you.
我明白你
Client
[emoji][emoji] I feel much better now. The strength of the spirit.
[emoji][emoji]好多了，精神的力量
Zongyuan
Steady yourself. Get the care you need, and also trust in the strength of your ancestors. It is very powerful.
稳住，该调理调理，也要相信先祖的力量，都很强大
Client
Okay, I’ll keep that in mind. I can do everything you told me to.
好，我记心里了，您给我说的，我都能做到。
Zongyuan
Good [emoji]
好[emoji]
Client
Mm, things will get better and better. I still need to stay positive. I feel
嗯，越来越好，心态还是要积极。我感