He asked if the girl was his right person
A client asked if a girl was his right match. I looked at her BaZi and said the relationship would not last long.
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Client
Zongyuan, can you tell if she's the right person for me?
师父能算算她是正缘不
Zongyuan
Send me her BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny).
八字儿发一下吧
Client
Just hers is enough, right?
她的就行是吧
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Zongyuan
I'll get back to you this afternoon when I have time.
等我下午空了回复你
Client
Okay, sure.
嗯嗯，好的
14:07
Zongyuan
This girl's BaZi was born [redacted], and metal is her favorable element. There is no metal in her full chart, so she looks for it in her partner. That is why in the year of Yisi, she will meet someone she likes. You come across to her as learned, and you give her a sense of direction. Metal helps wood stand straight. She is genuinely happy when she is with you, because she has never met someone as thoughtful as you. It feels new to her. When your views clash, she finds it rewarding.
这个姑娘的八字生[redacted]，喜金，全局没有，就从配偶身上找。因此在乙巳年，这个姑娘就可以找到喜欢的人，而你给她的感觉是博学，给她有方向感，金可以让木挺立，她和你相处是发自内心的高兴，因为她没接触过你这种比较有思想的人，新鲜。观点一碰撞，她就受用。
但是呢夫妻星是[redacted]此外巳中金是气化的，你俩相处非常
You come across to her as learned, and you give her a sense of direction. Metal helps wood stand straight. She is genuinely happy when she is with you, because she has never met someone as thoughtful as you. It feels new to her. When your views clash, she finds it rewarding.
而你给她的感觉是博学，给她有方向感，金可以让木挺立，她和你相处是发自内心的高兴，因为她没接触过你这种比较有思想的人，新鲜。观点一碰撞，她就受用。
But the spouse star is [redacted] [redacted]. Besides, the metal within si is only in vapor form. The two of you will be together for a very short time. She also sees you through a filter and fantasy, thinking you are her dream partner, her ideal match. Also, this year has both fire and metal, so she will even happily tell her family about this relationship.
但是呢夫妻星是[redacted][redacted]此外巳中金是气化的，你俩相处非常短暂，且她对你有一种滤镜和幻想，觉得你就是梦中情人，理想对象。而且呢今年火金俱全，甚至她会很开心的把这个事儿告诉她的家里人。
But [redacted] around October in the second half of the year, you will meet someone else you are attracted to. It will be sort of like you are half-cheating on this girl. Once this year's metal energy runs out, the two of you will break up. There will be a fight around November this year, and then early next year it will basically be over.
但是呢[redacted]你在下半年大约10月左右，还会遇到心动的人，相当于是对这个姑娘有点半劈腿了，今年的金走完之后你俩就要分开，先在今年的11月左右会闹一次，而后是明年年初，基本就是结束了。
This girl will meet a suitable partner in 2028 and settle down then. The next three years will not work out for her.
这个姑娘在2028年会有合适的对象，才可以安定下来，这三年都不行。
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Client
That's so accurate, Zongyuan. She already told her whole family about it.
太准了，师父，她现在就是搞得她全家都知道了
14:10
[emoji] It's so awkward
[emoji]很尴尬
Zongyuan
No way around it. This is what you have to go through [emoji]
没辙，这就是你要经历的[emoji]
No way around it. This is what you have to go through 😀
没辙，这就是你要经历的😀
People cheat on you, and you cheat on other people.
被人劈你，你也劈别人
When will this cycle of revenge end 😀
冤冤相报何时了😀
Client
I told her again today that I don't feel the joy of dating her.
我今天又和她说我对她没有谈恋爱的快乐感
She seemed to accept it. I don't know if she'll come find me again.
她好像接受了，不知道会不会又来找我
Last time I said it wouldn't work, she called me crying at two in the morning.
上次就是我说不行，半夜两点哭的打电话
I softened up for a moment.
我心软了一下
Zongyuan
This year is already her lu year, and wealth is breaking seal. You two have been intimate, haven't you 😀
今年已是她的禄，财破印了，你俩还是有亲密行为的是不😀
Water and fire mean kissing.
水火是接吻
Client
Yeah, as soon as she sees me she starts kissing and touching me.
是啊，她见我就开始又亲又摸的
🥵
🥵
14:13
Zongyuan
Then you also have a problem. You don't even like her, and you're being intimate with her 😀
那你自己也有问题啊，你也不喜欢人家啊，你和人发生亲密关系😀
And it looks like it hasn't been long. You two haven't been together very long.
而且看着时间不长，你俩好了没多久
Client
We chatted online for a month.
网上聊了一个月
We just met in person a week ago.
刚回来见面一周
She wouldn't let me leave when I tried to go.
我想走都不让我走
Zongyuan
Hmm, metal comes in this month. Your original chart starts to have spiritual pursuits, so you start to feel she's not right for you.
嗯，这个月金来了，你原局开始有精
神追求了，你就觉得人家不合适了。
But before that, you thought she was okay, you could make do. You enjoyed being chased, didn't you [emoji]
但是之前呢，觉得还行，能凑合，被
人追挺享受，是不是这样[emoji]
She puts you on a pedestal.
她会捧着你
Praises you.
夸你
Client
Yeah, I just feel like she really likes me.
是的，就是我觉得人很喜欢我
Zongyuan
Can't help it if you don't like her back [emoji]
不喜欢没辙[emoji]
You're still a spiritual animal.
你还是精神动物
Client
But I don't feel anything in my head. When I go to her place, I feel tired.
但是我脑子里没有感觉，我去她那，
我感到很累
Suddenly very tired.
突然很累的感觉
I can tell she really likes me.
我能感觉出来她很喜欢我
She's also 5cm taller than me.
她还比我高5cm呢
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Zongyuan
Hmm [emoji]
嗯[emoji]
When the hai month comes, things will get messy.
到了亥月就有点不利索了
14:17
You'll tend to hurt her more.
你容易让她更伤心
And then next year it'll be over.
然后嘛，明年就拉倒了
Client
It has to wait until next year to end?
还得明年才能拉倒啊
Zongyuan
Hmm, she's pretty persistent.
嗯，她挺执着的
Client
So tired. Mentally tired.
太累了，心累
Another one comes in October. Is that one the right person?
十月来一个，那个是正缘啊
Aren't I just two-timing then?
我这不脚踏两只船嘛
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Zongyuan
Yes [emoji]
对[emoji]
Client
I'm tired even before I've stepped into it.
我现在还没踏都感到累了
Zongyuan
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Client
Your reading about my ex-girlfriend was so accurate.
前女友师父算的是太准了
It ended exactly that month.
就是那个月结束的
I couldn't let go back then, but now I feel nothing. I even think she was going crazy.
当时放不下，现在没感觉了，我都感觉她要疯了似的
14:22
Zongyuan
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