She wanted to confirm her husband’s affair at work
A client asked to confirm if a coworker was her husband’s affair partner. I read her husband’s BaZi and described two profiles; one matched closely.
The screenshots were masked before they were posted. Names, avatars and birth details are covered in the originals; where a translated line reads [redacted], the source was covered too and nothing has been guessed.
Client
I have a suspect I think might be my husband’s affair partner. I was hoping you could help me confirm. I don’t want to make a scene—we work at the same company, and that would hurt my career. I mostly want more information so I’m prepared if I confront him, and if it’s definitely her, I can stop overthinking. I have her birthday and ID number from my work access. Can you help look into this?
我有一个怀疑对象，怀疑是我老公的
桃花，想请道长帮忙确定一下，我想
看桃花是谁也不是为了闹因为如果真
的是 那都是一个公司的，闹了影响我
的事业，我可能一个是为了掌握多一
点信息，真的和他摊牌的时候有准备，
再一个如果确定是这个女生，那我也
就心里有数不瞎想了[emoji]
然后我知道她的生日和身份证号，因
为借着我自己工作权限可以看到[emoji]，
可以帮吗看下嘛
Zongyuan
I understand.
了解
Send me your husband’s BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny).
你把老公八字给我
I’ll describe some details about a woman, and you can match them to what you know.
我说一些女的信息，你再匹配进去
You don’t need to send me her information.
女的信息不用给我
Client
My husband: Lunar calendar: [redacted] Solar calendar: [redacted]
我老公:
阴历: [redacted]
阳历: [redacted]
Okay, thank you so much, Zongyuan~~
好的 谢谢道长～～
Zongyuan
I’ll get back to you this evening.
晚上回复哈
Client
No rush at all, thank you 🌹🌹🌹
好嘞不急，麻烦拉🌹🌹🌹
Zongyuan
It comes from Xu. Last year was Jia Chen year—when water appears, there are romantic entanglements. This year is Yi Si, so the type of entanglement has shifted somewhat.
There are two possible profiles for his romantic connections:
Profile A, from Chen earth:
This person was met online, not closely tied to his career. They met and developed the connection between 2022 and 2024. She is quite different from your husband: younger, long-distance, works in an internet-related field. She has a mole on her ear or chin. This is more of an online, distant connection.
Profile B, from metal in Xu:
They’ve known each other a long time, met at work or through the same company. This woman is married or has a long-term partner. She holds a position at work—like a junior manager leading a small team. She has a mole on her leg, wears makeup, and her social media is mostly selfies and posts of home-cooked food.
She has neck or lower back issues, or has had a bone fracture. Her education level is similar to your husband’s. She has an average build; she used to be thinner but gained weight between 2023 and 2024.
从戌中来，去年是甲辰年，见水就有
桃花，今年是乙巳，桃花类型有所变
化。
他的桃花有两个可能的画像:
画像A，取辰土:
桃花是互联网认识的，和事业关系不
大，认识发展在2022-2024年之间，
和你老公差异蛮大的，年纪比较小，
异地，做的行业容易和互联网有关系，
脸上在耳朵或者下巴上有痣。这个人
和老公有点互联网桃花的意思。
画像B: 取戌中金。
认识时间长，在一个单位或者从事业
当中认识，这个女性自己也有家庭或
者有固定的男朋友。在单位有一定的
职位， 比如是小领导或者带一个小团
队。腿上有痣，会打扮化妆，朋友圈
多数有自拍以及自己做饭的记录。
这个人的颈椎，腰椎不是太好，或者
骨折过。学历和你老公相似。人匀称，
之前偏瘦，但是在2023-2024年这两
年这个女性发胖了。
Please take a look.
请收
Client
Is it possible both Profile A and Profile B are his romantic connections? I feel like B is the main one—they see each other basically every week. The person I suspect is a manager leading a small team, and my husband was promoted to be her boss at the end of 2021.
有没有画像A和画像B这两个人都是
我老公的桃花的可能性呢 ~ 我感觉B
是主要的，因为他们每周都见面基本
上，而且我怀疑的对象，是带小团队
的经理21年底我老公晋升当她的领导
[emoji]
And maybe A exists too, but isn’t the main one? My husband isn’t exactly faithful when he cheats, after all.
然后可能A也有 但是不是主要的？毕
竟我老公出轨都不专一[emoji]
Zongyuan
It’s not impossible that both exist.
不排除12都有
But A has been fading since the start of this year.
但是1在今年开始减弱了
Your husband has been less interested in that person this year.
这人你老公今年开始不太喜欢了
Does B match the other details? Like education, family situation, those things.
B这个人 其他画像符合吗
Mhm, the person I suspect is married. As for education, she has a bachelor’s degree and my husband has a college diploma. I haven’t seen her social media yet, but I’ll find a chance—we work at the same company, so it’s possible. She does wear makeup. I’ll keep observing.
比如学历 家庭这些
Client
Zongyuan, is B the one who’s been growing distant from my husband this year?
嗯嗯 怀疑对象是已婚的，但是学历这
个女的是本科我老公水大专，然后朋
友圈我还没有 不过我想找机会看看 毕
竟在一个公司 还是有机会看到的，然
后是会打扮化妆的
我再观察看看[emoji]
Will B and my husband stay close for a long time? 😔
道长 B今年是和我老公开始冷淡的那
个吗
As long as they work at the same company, there will be flirtation, but the relationship isn’t that deep—she has her own family.
B跟我老公 会持续很久 关系很好吗😔
Zongyuan
This is a four-person entanglement.
只要是在一个单位，就有暧昧，但是关系也不算太好，因为女的有家庭。
Yeah, that’s right. Then I think it’s her. Her last name is Feng. When I was recovering after giving birth in May, my husband went to Hangzhou saying he needed a break. When he came back, I found a West Lake souvenir pendant in his bag with the surname Feng on it.
这是四角恋了
Client
I see.
嗯嗯对的 那我感觉是她，这女的姓冯，我老公五月我坐月子的时候去杭州说散心，结果回来后我发现他包里有西湖的纪念品姓氏吊坠 就是冯这个字
Zongyuan
That’s almost certainly it.
嗯呐
Check her social media when you get a chance.
基本没跑
Wow, it’s so close to home 😂
朋友圈到时候你看看
10月5日 22:58
Client
Yes, that’s the kind of proximity it is.
天 离得太近了距离😂
Zongyuan
Was he on his phone a lot between 2022 and 2024? Like always scrolling?
嗯 就是这个距离
Yeah, his phone is basically glued to his hand.
他 22-24 年有聊天很频繁吗
He even takes it in the shower.
玩手机这种
Client
Says he’s listening to audio.
对的，他手机基本不离手的
Sleeps with it under his pillow.
洗澡也带着
It’s always been like that.
听音频那种
Yeah, there were more romantic connections then, including long-distance ones.
睡觉手机在枕头下
He’s always acting like he’s hiding something.
一直都是[emoji][emoji][emoji]
Zongyuan
Online chatting?
嗯，那时候桃花多 还有远程的
Client
Yes.
就偷感很重的一个人
That’s Profile A.
网聊吗[emoji]
Zongyuan
Oh wow.
对
Happy Mid-Autumn Festival, Zongyuan 🥮🥮🥮
就是 A
Client
I looked at her resume more carefully and just realized the woman I suspected (Profile B) actually did a college-to-bachelor’s upgrade. Yesterday I only saw the last line saying bachelor’s and didn’t notice the line before that said college diploma. I was shocked. That lines up exactly—her education is similar to my husband’s, except he never finished his upgrade.
天了噜
Yes, that’s definitely a match.
猫猫道长，中秋快乐[emoji][emoji][emoji]
I forgot to ask yesterday—when did my husband and this B start seeing each other? Sorry to ask again the next day (I’ll try to stop doing this awkward thing of following up late) 🙏🙏🙏
我又仔细看了对方的简历，才发现那个我怀疑的桃花B她原来是专升本，
昨天只看到了最后一行是本科，没注
意前面一行是大专，惊呆我[emoji]
那完全对应上了他和我老公学历相似，
只是我老公最后没升上去[emoji]
Zongyuan
Most likely around 2021.
嗯 那确实是
Client
Wow, we only got together in 2020. Okay, thank you so much, Zongyuan 🙏
昨天忘记问我老公和这个桃花B 他俩
是什么时候开始的呢[emoji]
不好意思隔天来问（以后我不好意思
的事情少干）[emoji][emoji][emoji]
Zongyuan
[right] Most likely around 2021.
多数就在21年附近
Client
[left] [emoji] We only got together in 2020. Alright, thank you, Zongyuan [emoji]
[emoji]我俩也才20年在一起的
好的好的，感谢猫猫道长[emoji]