She asked why her marriage ended, and when the next one would come
A client asked about her past divorce and future relationships. I looked at her BaZi chart and walked through the timeline.
The screenshots were masked before they were posted. Names, avatars and birth details are covered in the originals; where a translated line reads [redacted], the source was covered too and nothing has been guessed.
Zongyuan
Alright, I'll look it over and get back to you when I have time later.
好的 晚点我空了看完回复你
Client
Okay, thank you for your trouble.
好的，辛苦您
Zongyuan
Jiaxu [redacted]. Born in the Wu month in your BaZi (known in the West as the Four Pillars of Destiny), [redacted] is your useful god. Earth element is weak, and your spouse star sits below the day stem. When water and wood appear in the chart, there is relationship misfortune. Looking back, your relationship troubles and divorce happened between 2022 and 2024. In 2024, the storage is clashed, so both relationships and finances were quite unstable. [redacted] comes from a storage outside the home, so in your past relationships, your partners and spouses tended to have other romantic interests. You also have relatively strong romantic luck yourself, and tend to be pursued by people who already have partners or families. Looking ahead, a new serious relationship will appear in 2028. There will also be romantic interests between 2025 and 2027, but they are not reliable. They can pass the time, but do not consider marriage with them. Profile of your future spouse: 1. [redacted] is the source, so your spouse's parents or grandparents moved house, relocating from the north.
甲戌[redacted]
八字生在午月，全[redacted]为用神，土薄，夫妻星在坐下。八字见水木就有婚灾，因此往前看，你感情不顺和离婚发生在2022-2024年之间，2024年冲库了，不管是感情还是财运，动荡都比较厉害。[redacted]是家外的库来的，因此在你之前的感情经历里，你的对象，你的配偶容易有桃花，你自己也桃花相对旺，也容易被有对象的人，有家庭的人追求。
往后看，你在2028年会有新的正缘出现，在2025-2027年之间也有桃花，但是不太靠谱，可以解闷，但是不要考虑婚姻走到一块。
之后的配偶画像:
1 [redacted]是源头，配偶的父母或者祖父母是搬迁过的，从北方搬家过来的。
昨天 19:28
After you two divorced in 2020, did you still keep in touch, and only officially separate in 2022-2024?
你俩20年离婚之后是不是还有往来，
到了22-24才正式分开？
Client
Yes.
是的
It was on and off, back and forth those years.
那几年反反复复，分分合合
Zongyuan
Mm, we go by the actual state of the relationship.
嗯，按照实际关系论
In 2021-2022 he still had feelings for you.
21-22年对你还有感情
He still wanted to try to make it work.
还想争取
Client
Mm.
嗯
Can I know where the person he got together with is, and what the situation is?
可以知道他找的那个在哪里，是什么
情况吗
I really did feel he didn't care anymore in 2023/2024.
确实23/24年就感受他不在乎了
Okay. Thank you, Zongyuan.
好的。谢谢道长
Do you think you can see what the reason for my divorce was? Because I still don't understand why it happened even now.
您看能看到我离婚的原因是什么吗
Did he have an affair and change his heart?
因为到现在我都自己都不明白为什么
会离婚
The Xu earth has collapsed. There are a few points. One is that your partner had romantic interests outside. The second is that both sets of parents did not play a positive role, and intervened too much.
他有外遇变心了?
Zongyuan
You're so accurate.
戌土塌了，有几点，一个是你对对象
外面有桃花，第二个是双方父母也没
有起好作用，干预的多。
Client
My parents really never supported it.
您太厉害了
Your family was too noisy. Other people live their lives as a couple, but your whole family was giving opinions.
我父母确实一直不支持
Zongyuan
Yes.
你们家太热闹了，人家是两个人过日
子了，你们是一大家子提意见
昨天 19:35
Client
That's why I was always so mentally exhausted.
是的
Then will the 2028 serious relationship last until old age? I have no faith in marriage anymore.
所以一直我特别心累
You can keep each other company. Your parents have actually started to feel a little guilty since the middle of this year, and have started to realize their own problems, but they won't say it out loud.
那我2028年正缘能过到老吗，我对婚
姻没有信心了
Zongyuan
Will there still be children with this 2028 serious relationship?
可以互相陪伴了，你父母实际从今年
年中开始也有点内疚了，有点意识到
自己的问题了，但是嘴上不讲。
Client
You're really so accurate.
2028年正缘这个还会有小孩吗
昨天 19:37
Suddenly I feel like crying [emoji]
您真的太厉害了
[emoji] Don't cry [emoji]
突然我现在很想哭[emoji]
Zongyuan
I don't even know how I got through it.
[emoji]不哭[emoji]
Client
Sigh.
我都不知道自己怎么过来的
If you want children, you can still have them. The window is very short, only 2028-2030. If you don't have them in those years, there won't be a chance after that.
哎
Zongyuan
You two can discuss it yourselves.
想要的话，还可以有，窗口期很短，
就28-30年，不要的话过这个年份就
没有了。
Okay, I'm so grateful for you.
你俩自己再商量
Client
[left] Alright, I'm grateful to have you.
好的，感恩有您